need advice

[georgia9674]

i recently found out im pregnant and i dont really know how because we always use a condom and t wasn't split, i recently told a few people and they all advise me to get rid of it, yes i am young but i honestly feel its not the right thing to get rid of it, i believe i have been given a gift of having a baby whether im young or not, i am almost 9 weeks now please anyone what do you think i should do

[MiaDai]

I Know The Feeling. It Crossed My Mind When  I Found Out I Was Pregnant. But It Was Only A Thought. I Couldn't Do Such An Awful Thing To An Innocent Baby. At The Time I Was Separated From My Bf And I Didn't Know What To Do. And I Didn't Want To Continue On Knowing I Did Such An Awful Thing. But That's Just Me. Other People Take It Well. I Am Now 16W2D Pregnant And We Are Now Back Together. Things Have Changed Between Us For The Positive Of This Baby. The Decision Is Yours Hun. You're The One With The Right To This Baby. But You Have To Act Soon. Think About What You Will Have To Do To Support The Baby, Your Plans You Will Have To Change, And If You Think You Can Handle It. Adoption Is Always There As Well.

[ccourtney519]

What about adoption?  That way you can still have this baby you created, but someone who is able, can raise your child? I would be worried about abortion bc of the extra risks involved. It can lead to increased risk for cancer down the road.

[georgia9674]

my grandma knows and she also wants me to abort it but i really don't think i could give up something i have created

[My1stPudding]

Honestly its entirely your decision.  I was in a similar situation and decided to keep my baby because I could see no substantial reason why I must destroy an innocent life. As long as you feel comfortable and confident in your abilities to love your baby don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You will be the one who has to live with the consequences & guilt of your decision what ever you decide to do. Good luck hun do what you believe is best for you and your unborn baby

[kaylerrae]

Thats a tough decision. Everyone will be very opinionated about it. If you have a good family backing to help ya out. And you want that responsibility..go for it! It is very very rewarding! But it is your choice :)

[MiaDai]

Hey. Having A Baby Is A Big Deal. Do Your Parents Know?

[meg_ftm_sohappy]

No matter what it is your decision. People can tell you whatever they want but at the end of the day you are the one that had to go through it.