need advice

[theanna198921]

Hello ladies well I have a personal question and also need advice.

Well I gave birth 5weeks ago to a 9lbs 4oz baby naturally and I had a 1st degree tore well I was bleeding a lot my doctor couldn't stop it easily but he did and he also stuffed me with gauze (<<<<don't know if that's the correct word) and he left that in my vagina till the next day he also inserted a catheter and also took it out till the next day so youll ladies could just imagine how my recovery went :( really bad I couldn't walk right I was sore for a long time couldn't sit down right either i was bleeding hard but no clogs which was good . It was difficult tho....

Well today is 5 weeks and 4days since ive givin birth and my husband and I wanted to have sex and we were into it but I couldn't let him go farther I didn't let him penetrate me cause I'm soooooo scared it's going to hurt.. my question is hpw did you ladies do it so it wouldn't hurt or did it even hurt or am I just exaggerating??? Please anyone???

Sorry for making it long and with tooo much info..
Thanks ;)

[DelainaN]

Dang with that recovery I would wait just to make sure! I'm sorry that just sounds miserable :(

[breee08]

You should be having your 6 week post pardum check up soon and should ask what the Dr thinks

[Nichole05]

I would maybe get him to lube up a couple of his fingers or if you have a small vibrator or something 1st to do a small test run and see how that feels, if that's ok then use lots of lubrication and have him take it slow. I hope it works out for you guys