I was the one who put him in prison for the abuse he put me through. I was 12-14 when he abused me and 16 when I stood trial against him. The abuse he did to me kept him from ever seeing his kids let alone have custody.
I had similar issues with a man I had put on an order of protection. He would call and I would record the conversation. I would also contact the police and my social worker. Every violation of the ofp extended his probation and jail time. In the end it extended his jail time by two years and his probation time by six. Every violation of the court ordered restraining order is showing the judge that your baby daddy has no respect for the law. His actions speak loudy to the court. They aren't going to give him anything. Have faith and I will pray for you. I was not pregnant at the time of my abuse but I was young. I know the feelings of fear. Stay strong for your son.
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Ok thank you all so much.!!! This is really scary for me but I really appreciate all the imput and support. Keep us inn your prayers ladies. I'm definitly going to start collecting and recording everything. Thank you guys so much!!
if you're near a printer I would print of things that he has on his Facebook that you could use against him like the fact that he is in a gang I would put that also he is admitting to the ganf or he says anything hateful about you. print it off and make sure that it says that it is from him so he cant say in court that that is not him
everything he does all the phone calls he makes every time he calls you should be writing it down my sister every time I heard ex-boyfriend called she had to write it down the time and how long the call was in every time you text her every time that my sisters ex texted her she had to write down what the text said that's what my sister didn't help her get a protective order and keeping him away I would just write down literally everything that he does towards you or says toward you and then if you have to go to court you have everything against him
He also has a history of violence to on hid record and drug charges
Don't put his name on the birth certificate. You said you have a restraining order already? That will help your case if he does take you to court. If you're on record as having sought help and he's on record as being violent and abusive, I can't imagine that the judge would grant him any form of custody. He sounds like he is threatening you because he wants to see you suffer, not because he actually wants custody of your child. Be strong, momma, and report all verbal, emotional, and physical abuse to the authorities and to your therapist so that they are aware of the situation and can back you up if he's ever stupid enough to take you to court.
I have records he assulted me twice known of and I also have a witness who had seen how he is in action and photos of the marks he left on me and his fb page showing that he is in a gang do you think that's enough
if he has two felony assault charges on his record there against you I don't see that he has too much of a chance of getting your child because that proves that he's dangerous and violent
Yes he has two felonys for assulting me while pregnsnt in nc. But rsn from the court date. And now is in co where I am.
If you dont have proof how he is. He could get joint custody. If that happens you could fight for supervised visitation everything he does you need to be writing it down a notebook so if he does take you to court you have everything wrote down.
He said he was going to take me to court for this. Do you think tge judge will let him See the baby? I'm afraid of that. He really is dangerous . And idk what to tell my son when he getsolder and wants to know about his dad.
Depending where you live laying a hand on you while pregnant may be a felony. I know a guy that sat on his girlfriend and punched her twice while pregnant and actually got charged. He had to go to jail and he isn't allowed to see the kid. He will have that felony on his record for the rest of his life. I live inTexas
here in Oklahoma you don't have to be married. a mother or father could take off with their child and neither one could do anything about it because they are on the birth certificate as a parent. If he's on the birth certificate he could take off with your child. The law wont do anything about it. We had problems with my sisters ex, she has to get a protective order for my sister and niece.
Thsnk you. Oh really I didn't know that. I will definitly be doing that to then I'm not putting his name on the birth certificate either. I'm just so afraid of him I pray he stay away from me and this little boy of mine.
You're doing the right thing he doesn't deserve to see your baby he's got issues stay safe and pray
You would be an irresponsible mother if you allowed that baztard near your child, knowing how sick he is. You're doing the right thing mama.
He sounds like a horrible person. I wouldnt leave my child with him. You can get a restraining order for your son once he is born. You are doing the right thing.