nerves & stomach ache

[JaneRae]

Having my baby boy tomorrow AM via planned c-section. All last night I had bad back and stomach pain. I am thinking I am just nervous. Our son passed a way almost 15 months ago during birth at full term. It's hard to keep my nerves in check at this stage. My stomach hurts bad, its all twisted and nothing seems to make it feel better. I have to get our kids ready for a sleep over and do a final house clean. Does anyone know of what I can do or take to mellow out my stomach??,

[Ashleigh529]

First i just want to say my heart goes out to u and ur family for ur loss. That is something i could imagine is haunting u at a time like this. Try and be strong for ur new baby and remember u have an incredible angel who was unable to stay with u watching over u during ur surgery and the birth of ur new miracle. I doubt at this time much is going to help or calm ur nerves. The best thing for u is to discuss ur fears with ur family and supporters. I guarantee once everything goes ok ull be so relieved and feel so much better.

Try and just stay busy and calm and hopefully tonight you'll be able to get a little sleep. Maybe go for a light walk tonight and watch a happy movie with hubby and relax. My prayers go out to u. Good luck tomorrow on ur big day :-)

[sorenr]

I am trying to remember the words you wrote to me when I was freaking out about my nightmares...I think they were along the lines of trying not to worry about things which have not happened, you comforted me anyway and I wish I could do the same for you. Of course you will be worried and understandably so, I know I would be even without suffering a loss like you have. Try to keep your mind on packing up the kids and keep yourself busy with some cleaning, I would be cranking up the music to sing along to...all you can really do is try to distract yourself in any way possible and focus on a positive outcome. I wish you and yours all the best and will be thinking of you tomorrow...

[landonmama]

Not sure. Drink a cup of tea and ask hubby to rub your back. Try to relax. I am sorry for your loss and will be thinking positive, healthy baby and Mama thoughts. Keep us posted.