nervous

[jamie_michael]

Ok I'm freaking out :( I have 25 days to go and its so close I don't know what I'm having until my baby shower and that isn'tfor another two weeks :( I'm stressing out! What should I expect or be doing or really anything... I don't even know what to pack for the hospital bag :( what even is that!?

[jamie_michael]

He's stubborn and keeps it to two names that I don't like and just gets all mad when I try and talk to him about it

[Melissa_25]

I think green is pretty for both genders. I like green. Maybe you can look up names you would like and make a list that he can look st when hes off one day and you guys can start trying to pick out names. Since youve done all you can for now I say just relax. Lol. Go get a pedicure or something or have a girls night.  :)

[jamie_michael]

I've cleaned, washed the carpet 2 times today, i dust everyday, I've gone as far as washing down the couches, tub, and even the mattresses in our bedroom, I don't have many clothes so literally just about everything has to wait I guess :( and I just don't know is green nutrual enough? Like a soft minty green? Or is that more for boys... Should I get a different color or something? My mom gave me a bassinet that my nieces used for the babies bed and we aren't even agreed on names :'( if its a girl I don't know what name I want same with a boy and there's almost no talking to my fiance about it since he leaves at 3a.m. and doesn't get back until after 5 from work :'(

[Melissa_25]

Breathe!! Lol. Your stressing yourself out over everything all at once. You could always start getting some of the more pricey things you need for baby if you havent already. Like a crib, dresser, things that are nuetral that you dont expect others to buy for you. You could start cleaning house so your not stressing over having to get the house clean when baby is here. You could start planning out some quick and easy meals for the first few weeks when you get home because you wont want to cook big meals an. Probably wont have time even if you wanted to. As far as the hospital bag you could pack your bag which is comfy pjs, going home outfit for yourself, travel sized shampoo and conditioner, razor, eventually your toothbrush and toothpaste, hairbrush, chapstick, hair tye, whatever you need on a daily basis can wait until you go in but you can start with the basics.. the babies bag can always wait intil after the baby shower since you dont know what your having yet and probably don't have much for it yet. But really id say if you already have your pricey things and dont have much to clean or organize then just relax and find something fun to do. Dont stress. :)