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1287276 tn?1357854419

not a question..just feel bad for my hubby :-(

ok today i was cleaning my house and i start to swet i was craving for a strawberry milkshake but i what it from cold store creamery that is like 30-40 minute way from my house so i called DH and told him he said ok but come with me so you can drink it rite way and that way the milkshake dont get meltdown i said ok so we went there and there was no parking any where he drove around for one hour just looking for parking so he decide to parked in a no standing at any time zone but he didnt get out of the car  so i went to buy the shake when i get back to the car he was like oh i just got a $115.00 ticket and to top it off the shake wasnt the way i wanted i start crying cause i felt it was my faut he got the ticket i dindt drank the shake i give it to my daugther i was crying the entire ride back home and poor him was like but lets go to calver to buy it there they make good shakes he was trying to make me feel better but i coundt stop crying he drove to calver and bought another shake even thou i told him i didnt want it but he just want to please me but i really cant stop crying and want to stop but i cant  i dont what to make him  feel bad for me  i hate this hormone sometime ugh :((
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1287276 tn?1357854419
i totally undestand you.. when he try to kiss me and hug me i flip out with no reazon ugh it totally *****.. i want this emotional roller coaster to be over
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1287276 tn?1357854419
i hope it passed soon for you too cause i know its not a good feeling :( not having control of our emotions.. :(
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1287276 tn?1357854419
this hormones drive us crazy ugh cause im not like that not even with my others pregnancy im not me right now ugh but i did talk to my DH about what happen why i was acting  like that and feeling that way he undestood and told me that soon i will be me again lol about the ticket he will fight it that dont worry about it it wasnt my fault i feel much better now cause he understood why  im the way im rite know and that i dont what to be like this that it a plus for me rite now it mske me feel much much better :)
  thanks lady for your comments at least i know im not the only one :) i thought i was getting crazy lol
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Same thing is happening to me today. At this moment I'm mad at my boyfriend and don't know why he is trying to be nice offer me something to eat or to drink and talk to me but I don't want to talk to him. He asked me why was I mad at him cause he can tell when I'm mad but I didn't even have a response. I want to cry so bad but I've been holding back my tears all day but I don't even know why I wanna cry. I hate feeling like this I feel so depressed and I'm so ready for this pregnancy to be over with I didn't experience this with my first.
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Remember its hormones hun. I just recently apologized to my hubby for being so snappy. :( i dont mean to be..it just happens randomly. I have snapped at him for trying to kiss me and hug me :( unintentionally of course. But i totally understand where ur coming from!
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1287276 tn?1357854419
i really what this to pass cause sometime im a pain in the butt hes trying his best to do thigs rite but i always have someting to said even thou i know he try his best and like you said theni start crying my eyes out feeling bad for him i really dont want to be like that especially when i know he is doing the best he can im so wanted to this go away :((( i really feel really sad about what happen today i cant get over it :(((
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I felt bad for my husband as well. Around 20 to 23 weeks or so i was so mean to him for no reason. Even if he was doing something right i would still say something mean to him...and then i would start balling my eyes out cuz i could see i was being a ***** for no reason but i couldnt stop and i felt so bad for treating him like that cuz hes been so great thru the whole pregnancy. But that bitchyness has (for the most part) passed. Dont worry...you will feel like yourself again...just remind yourself its the horomones doing this, not you.
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I felt bad for my husband as well. Around 20 to 23 weeks or so i was so mean to him for no reason. Even if he was doing something right i would still say something mean to him...and then i would start balling my eyes out cuz i could see i was being a ***** for no reason but i couldnt stop and i felt so bad for treating him like that cuz hes been so great thru the whole pregnancy. But that bitchyness has (for the most part) passed. Dont worry...you will feel like yourself again...just remind yourself its the horomones doing this, not you.
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