The contract ends a few months before the baby is due, but still. I can't believed he turned into such a dbag. My husband is really upset too and is trying to find somewhere else for us to live. Apparently his roommate was talking bad about him behind his back at work when he wasn't there (they work at the same place). He is also refusing to replace things of mine that his dog destroyed over a month ago that he said he'd replace. I'm trying to get my husband to take it out of our portion of rent so he'll end up paying for it either way. But I'm leaving that up to him. He's trying to keep me at a distance from the issue right now, since he knows it's really stressing me out. But I really want to punch the dude in the face. He's acting like a freaking pmsing, whining, teenage girl.
If he wasn't rude before and now he is. He may be jealous as funny as that sounds. Best friends get like that, especially over significant others. That is why me and my best friend don't talk anymore, because I got pregnant and got married to my husband and she HATED me for it. As far as kicking him out, he was there first. That isn't really your decision to make. Idk when you're due, but just being patient if you can't move out of the apartment may be your option. But if you can move that's definitely ideal. AND your husband needs to defend you against the roomate. Unacceptable
He wasnt like this before u got pregnant sounds to me that hes doing this because he knows soon u and ur husband will be asking him to leave when the baby arrives which is completely understandable he needs to go especially with that attitude preparing for a baby takes alot of work and energy and his attitude and disrespectfulness is uncalled for
I do have a job, but he is on the lease until February, so we can't really make him leave. :/ they were roommates for quite a while before we eloped last month. The thing is, I've pretty much been living here since they moved in together, and he's never been this mean before. So I have no idea why all of a sudden he decided to be such a jerk. My husband is trying his best under the circumstances, but the roommate is being very defensive and unreasonable.
Sounds like maybe you don't have a job? Get one. I know you're going to say you're pregnant etc and you can't but trust me, you can. If you get a job then I don't see why roommate would have to live there anymore.
You and your husband should keep a close eye on him because his actions towards you are in away very inappropriate. And like BSny20 said its odd he's staying around knowing your pregnant and married. Another thing that's kinda disrespectful of your husband to even allow another man to live over his wife and unborn child.
For oneeee, you and your husband are now married. There shouldn't be a roommate. Being married is were your life really starts. Your husband needs to tell him bye bye. For two, he is a dbag! Has your husband said anything to him?? Ugh. He makes me mad and I don't even know him. For three, you guys are married and expecting a baby, what kind of man would stay knowing all of that?!? Just odd to me.
Yeah, we're looking for a new place. But I just moved and really don't want to move again. And he's being such a jerk, I doubt he'll leave.
Have you talked to your husband about this things. Bcuz he would have to go, I couldn't live with him