pregnant or not pregnant?

[madrigal_amparo27]

ok so I'm confused about pregnancy thing, I had unprotected sex, in which he did not pull out, with my boyfriend on October 14th, which has been a month from today. I've been wondering if I might be pregnant. I've also had unprotected sex recently which was on November 8th and November 9th. My last period started on October 8th and ended on the 13th. I had slight dark bleeding on October 30 and within a week it got a more red color but it wasn't like a normal period. I took a pregnancy test about 20 days after having unprotected sex because I didn't know when to expect my next period since all my life I have had irregular periods. the test came out negative, since then I haven't taken another test. I haven't gotten my normal period yet so I don't know what to expect or think. I have been doing a lot of research about pregnancy and looking up the symptoms but I haven't had all the symptoms. I have been feeling light headed, headaches, and lower back pains. I don't know what else to expect. SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME AN OPINION, ANSWER, ETC. Please and thank you so much <3

[madrigal_amparo27]

yes this would be my first pregnancy. I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad that God gave you another opportunity to become a mommy. Thank you very much, I wish the best for you as well(:

[Babyg92]

you're welcome. is this your first pregnancy. i had a pregnancy a couple of months ago i was 13 weeks and miscarried. i am pregnant again and now 6 weeks. its exciting i already go to see my baby. but i hope nothing but the best for you. :)

[madrigal_amparo27]

Thank you so much for the support, I would love to be living the mommy experience and my bf and I have been thinking about it a lot lately and he is very supportive of our choice(:

[Babyg92]

thats ok its normal thats what were here for to ease your mind. i have never herd of the dark blood but my mom didn't know she was pregnant until she was 4 months. she would still bleed just like you are. and because your bf obviously finishes in you the day you are fertile it could be a big possibility. the best advice i can give is make sure you are fine and if you are pregnant the baby is fine too. :)

[madrigal_amparo27]

I just feel so concerned because it wasn't really blood it was a dark brown color and from that I have not got my period or had signs of it coming I am bloated right now and I have had craving for all sorts of food. To tell you the truth I have no idea what to expect since I never have been a mommy

[Babyg92]

it doesn't sound like you're pregnant because you have bled so much. but maybe you had I'mplantion bleeding.  all i can tell you is wait another week or 2 if your period doesn't start to take another test. if you start to get more symptoms see a doctor. i didn't bleed at all since my last period in september. not even a little bit. but we are all different. doesn't sound like you are pregnant but if you have unprotected sex it could be a possibility. wait a little longer and test again. or see a doctor and tell him what is going on.