pregnate or not?

[piggypiggy]

i had sex on the 13th of this month and i was suppose to get my period on the 20th it is now the 30th and i still dont have it. we used a condom and he pulled out when he cam. i dont belive the condom broke. i took to tests at home and they both were negative and i took one at a clince and it was also negative. but i have not gotten my period yet. my beast are tender and im eating more. do you thing im prenganate?

[smjmekg]

In my honest opinion, I think you should wait to have sex until you are a bit older. There are lots of consequences that could come from sex, not only pregnancy, but so many STDs. You're a young girl, enjoy being a kid, yes I know you're probably going to say "I'm not a kid, I'm a teenager" But keep that in mind. You are a teenager, there's plenty of time for sex. But it is your choice, and that is my opinion. BUT since you had all these tests and the earliest was 7 days after your period, you need to have your mom set up an ob/gyn appointment for you. If you're going to be sexually active you need to be getting checked yearly by a doctor, and it could be something else delaying your period, or it's just your body getting regulated still. It takes a while for your periods to really become regular, or they may always be irregular, mine have been for 11 years. You can discuss birth control with the doctor as well, and that could help regulate your period, and protect you against pregnancy. If you can tell your mom you have sex, then I'm sure she'd be happy to discuss birth control with you. I'm willing to bet that she'd be happier doing that then you telling her she's going to be a grandmother :) Sorry if I offended you saying you are a teenager/kid, but I'm only 23 and I can clearly remember those days...don't grow up too fast or you'll regret it later.

[piggypiggy]

sorry i will clear that up, i took a test 8 days after i pissed my period and 15 days after i had sex. i went to a clince and took a test they told me they are 99.1 % accurate i also took 2 tests at home 7 days after i missed my period, 14 days after i had sex, they all were negative, but it scares me i have signs and still dont have my period. im just very scared, see the catch is im only 15, im scared to tell my mom. i can tell her i had sex but im scared to tell her i might be prego. this girl in my grade is prego and i talked to her about it and she asked me if my tummy feels harder and if im going to the bathroom more, i dont think im and i dont know if my tummy feels harder. im so pariond.

[JoyRenee]

It is possible to convince yourself you are pregnant and then to develop symptoms. VERY possible.

SMJMEKG also gave you great information.

[smjmekg]

" took a test 7 days and 8 days after i pissed it " This confused me a little...did you mean you took a test and you peed on it again? Normally it's a good idea to wait 14 days after you had sex to test, some home pregnancy tests show in the pamphlet to test a minimum of 19 days later. You should wait until the first day of your missed period for sure, any earlier could cause a false result, even with the tests that say "4 days before missed period". The HCG (pregnancy hormone) is what they test for, and if you are very early in pregnancy your levels may not be high enough to pick up, that's why you should wait until at least the day of your missed period, if not a week later. But I doubt you are pregnant. Just for some added info...just because a man does not ejaculate, does not mean you are safe. Pre ejaculate contains sperm and it only takes one to get pregnant. Condoms are not 100% effective, there is no form of birth control that is. My sister in law got pregnant using condoms and was on the pill.

[piggypiggy]

you guys are making me feel alot better, i have been crying over this for weeks now and i have not been sleeping. im so worked up over this all. i just dont know wat to do. it just scary me because i have signs(bloating,tender beeast,and eating more) people have been telling me since i think im prego that i might acaully be making myself have this, could this happen? and i had sex a week before the 13th but he did not *** and was wearing a condom. but people have been telling me it was two early to take a test? is this true? i took a test 7 days and 8 days after i pissed it

[smjmekg]

Did you only have sex on the 13th? Condoms are not 100% reliable, and you can still get pregnant using one. If you are sexually active, I would suggest looking into birth control for yourself, whether it be the pill, shot, or any other form. Since you have taken two at home tests and been to the clinic for a test, I doubt you are pregnant. Your symptoms are consistent with not only pregnancy, but PMS as well. The symptoms are similar. If you are stressing over being pregnant, you could be causing your period to be late. Try waiting another three days of so and taking another test if you still don't get your period, and if you  still get a negative and you haven't started your period, you may want to see a doctor because it could be something else delaying your period.

[JoyRenee]

Many reasons why a woman misses her period if she is not pregnant. If your period is still late after 2 more weeks, take another test (though it is doubtful you are pregnant). If it is still negative contact your doctor. They can prescribe low-hormone birth control to you to help regulate you.