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Yesterday my boyfriend told me he wishes I wasn't pregnant... I really don't know what to think he said its just not the right time I mean he is right about it but hearing him saying he wishes I wasn't pregnant just broke my heart..to know he isn't happy about this kid kills me
Lol @the military man comment too! I'm a navy wife pregnant while my husband is deployed. It *****!
My hubby was a marine and was medically seperated last jan...its really tough but after a couple months we settled in and now really enjoy the civilian life :)
Yourstruly. Mine was in Iraq with my second pregnancy. I know how you feel. He is now facing a meb board, medical retirement. He was medevacted home on his last tour. The little the Army does pay ia still more than disability pay which is what were looking at now. I'm due in march and he is supposed to be out in January. Iam thankful that baby will be covered under tricare though. Buy after he is out we will be in a very rocky boat and we have problems financially now. :( hated the Army but am scared to leave
Ive been in ur shoes.. especially since we are in rough patch right now. but he'll get over it. trust me! it hurts alot. my bf tells me that when hes angry but i always let him know it upsets me.. but he hasnt said it since. so dont worry itll pass
I agree mckee! Ohh what I would give for my husband to NOT be in the military! At least then hed be able to enjoy my pregnancy with me instead of in Afghanistan like he is now
Ya the military comment lol!! Try dealing w ptsd. My husband is Army and a sgt. We struggle daily. A military man wow those guys have no idea. Maybe am NFL player would make more sense
Lol @ the military man comments!! My husband is a marine and let me tell yu I DONT have everything I want! Sadly the military doesn't make as much money as I think they should
Wow that is a horrible thing to say! I think every single one of us though, as humans, have said things in an angry moment, only to seriously regret them later. Any man with a soul would probably want to put his foot in his mouth for saying that. Hopefully it was just a bad fight but I know how draining those things are emotionally and physically..
lmao OMG are you serious my boyfriend said THAT EXACT SAME THING he said "go find a miltary man hell give you everything" i hate that if im not intrested in something he likes hell say "whatever man" and walk away -_-
Once the baby is born things will be different. Men don't bond with the baby until after they're here so they don't understand the love you have for the baby already. Once the baby is here and he holds him/her. Things will most likely be different. Most of the tome its never the "right time" to have a baby but its a miracle and it just takes men longer and the physical bond to see that. Hang in there!
Haha Kayla, my Hubby always tells me I should "go find a military man"...ugh drives me nuts lol spoiled rotten
omg girl im so sorry :( i kind of know how you feel except the other day me and my babys father got in an argument and he said "go find your anthoner babys dad im gone" it broke my heart also but he left and 20 min later came back immeditely apologizing saying he so sorry bla bla bla although the sorry didnt make it any better my boyfriends a huuge brat though and if its not his way its no way.. im sorry toough hear that though girl ignore him and dont text let him realize youll be fine without him no matter what tell him wether its the right if hes grown enough to make a baby he can taake the responsibilty and take care of the baby. show him that you dont need him thats what i did thats what im doing and my bf is all up my a** now
He is prob just scared hun...my husband tells me we shouldnt have gotten married...but hes not used to putting in effort and now that im prego and we are married, im putting pressure on him to step up. Your man is prob just worried about money/not being a good dad/how his lifeis going to change and its scaring him. He will come around though, try not to take it personal :) guys freak out during pregnancy just as much as we do, just over different stuff
You don't need him to be happy for u, be happy for yourself. Of course it hurts to hear that from the person u love but he could of said it out of anger. Just do you for a couple of days stay with a family member and focus on yourself. Stress isn't good for the baby. If he has any sence or heart he'll eventually come around.
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