scared jelousy?

[secondmummy2boys]

I have a 21month old boy and im worried about him being jelouse when the baby comes, my sister had a baby 4months ago and we saw here everyday before n they after she had the baby we went to see her and he wouldnt let me hold her baby he would cry it took about 3days before he would let me & when her baby got to about 2&half months he loved him and too this day he never leaves him alone now lol always talking and trying to play with him, but im scared hes going to get really jelouse and act up alot when i have the baby coz hes use to having all my attention what should i do?

[2015bouncingboy]

I was only18 months older than my brother and I don't ever remember life without him. I've heard stories about things I did like taking toys and hurting him without provocation but it was never out of jealousy it was just nor. Al things I had to learn asap kid. My brother and I are super close and have had a lot of the same friends all through our lives. I wouldn't have changed it for anything

[scillacts]

I was afraid of that too. But my son was 3 in half years old & wat every 2nd time mom or moms that had more children told always involved your child to help with the baby. Always tell your child look brother in my tummy, or brother loves you you know that's wat I did. After my 2nd son was born he instantly grew attached to his brother. & also after you give birth try to involve your son with the baby by saying baby can you help me, can you give me brother bottle & so on. Don't worry girl he'll accept it. & you'll learn how to give both attention