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I wish I knew what to do to have my boyfriend want to have sex with me...im feeling frustrated and my self esteem seems to be plummeting now .... im only 25 weeks pregnant I want to ya know... ugh ,):
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I wish mine would stop wanting sex.Im 34 weeks and by the time he gets into motion,I want to rest.It's every day he wants sex and I'm just getting tired of it.There's times I want to,but pregnancy is catching up and taking its due on me where I'm not in the physical state to keep going with it.
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I don't know your views on this but if he isn't willing maybe you should buy a toy and take care of yourself. Just a  suggestion
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lol I hope mine.goes through the same. I want him to.see.how it feels on my side. and youre fine its not tmi :p
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9954084 tn?1406872438
Lol I thought my bf was the only one who got annoyed. At first he would say he felt awkward because of the baby being in me, now he just says he's tired from work which at this point I don't really mind since I hardly ever want to do it, but when we do it feels like I'm a virgin all ovee again due to my V being so tight lol sorry tmi
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7122105 tn?1407103099
Mine didn't want sex for my whole second trimester. I would cry and beg and he would just say he's tired and that he's sorry. Now that I'm almost done I don't want sex anymore...but man he sure wants it now. The tables have turned. Now he is the one to suffer.
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oh no ): I hope mine isnt doing the same, I feel scared now /:
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Like u said my boyfriend been distant since I was 3 months today I am 8 months pregnant and hes still the same way ,I know for sure by now that he's been cheating worse feeling on earth
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I try to tell him alll the time. he says he is sorry and we still never do it. im getting reallyfed up. I feel lame being the woman who always wants to have sex, I thought my bf would be more excited about this. he actuallyseems to get annoyed that I want anything from him. like sorry if too much tmi. I try rubbing his "ya know" he goes omg and rolls his eyes and is mad. sometimes he even yells at me.
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I agree...the  best thing to do is talk to him and let him know how you feel
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9634886 tn?1405819605
i know how you feel......my boyfriend never wants too either....makes me feel unwanted.
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Try talking to him about it
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