so mad

[eimperati]

ever since we got home from the hospital on the 15th with the baby...i have been doing everything for the baby..the boyfriend doesn't do anything really..im the one that wakes up in the middle of the night to take care of him and im the one during the day taking care of him...im still trying to recover from my c-section...im really thinking about kicking him to the curb..because i want someone that will help me..not sleep through the night when the baby cry's...also he gets mad whenever the baby is crying telling him to shut up and cursing at him...i get scared when he says that because Aiden is just a baby and thats all he can do..i just need help

[pinkbelle]

It sounds like your man has a case of the " I need to grow the heck up" .. you need to tell him that you didnt make that baby by yourself you didn't climb on top of yourself and get pregnant.. he needs to man up and help you out and seriously sounds like he needs anger management!

[eimperati]

im 21 and he is 28..he already has one kid

[AnitaRFrith]

I just have to ask this... if he treats that baby like that... how dose he treat you?  Dose he talk to you like that.  You should not have to tell him you need help an your in pain.  If you have to explain it to him then hes just stupid!  My husband is laying beside me an he even said thats bullsh#t. If hes treating the baby like that now then how will he treat him when hes older.   Do you have a mom or family close by?  I would say I'm going to the store an not come back.  Or I would have all his **** waiting for him outside when he got home.  I grew up in abuse... kids don't forget that kind of thing.  Like they said... re-evaluate you being with him.  You can do better than that.  Any man that will cuse a baby should never be left alone with kids.  Keep us posted.  Anita

[kennedydp5]

omg i know what you're going through recovering from a c-section (i've had 4 sections).  i am soooo sorry that you do not have help right now.  it can be a real emotional ride at first trying to take care of your baby and yourself at the same time when you're in so much pain.  i echo the others on here when i say to please re-evaluate your situation.  is there anyone else that can offer some help?

[Latrice414]

Jus as kelly said, was he supportive during the pregnancy. If you dont mind me asking, how old are you guys.

As joy said, dont leave the baby with him.

You need to have a talk with him, because raising a child is serious and both parents should be involved. You should not have to take care of the baby by yourself. You should re-evaluate your stituation.

[JoyRenee]

Whoa, seriously never leave your baby alone with him. Even a relatively calm person can lose it with a baby and shake them. If you are afraid, he NEEDS to go. Your baby doesn't have a voice but you do!

I was about ready to say that it's pretty typical until you said he yells and cusses at the baby. There are hotlines you can call to get help with this sort of thing. Aiden NEEDS you to take care of this!

[KellyA74]

Have you talked to him about this?  Was he supportive before the baby came...There's no excuse for him yelling at the baby...But I would make it known that you just had MAJOR surgery and need a little help...If you've already talked to him about it and he continues to act this way...Maybe your thoughts about kicking him out are for the best.

[AnitaRFrith]

I already told my husband if he dose that he will never get sex EVER lol.  I would kick his sorry tail out!  You did not make that baby alone I mean come on!  Men can be SO stupid.  Girl... do what you have to do.  If the baby "bother" him then he needs to go.  I'm going to be praying for you.  God Bless an Good luck.  Anita