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me and my boyfriend stopped talking for a some time and I had protected sex with someone else but before then me and my boyfriend always had sex unprotected , I went to the obgyn for a pap and took a pregnancy test which was negative , I went back on sept8th because after the test pap abnormal cells came back , I took a pregnancy test and it was postive they calcuated that I was about 8 weeks now I am 17weeks and 1day , can the other man be my baby father or am I just being paranoid ? we used a condom and he didnt even ***
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@nicole yes I understand thanks , and @nickels yes he was wearing a condom and lol trust me ive thought of every possible thing you can think of . .
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Even with perfect use condoms are not 100%.
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And he was wearing a condom right?  But, I think that's the only thing that will put your mind at ease is a paternity test. But I still don't think its his unless the condom had a hole. But now we are just looking too deep lol.
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889551 tn?1416184483
He might not have, but unfortunately whenever a man is aroused pre-ejaculate is present and it does contain sperm. Granted, it doesn't have many, but it only takes one. :(
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yeah I guess the only way to find out for sure is by a paternity test when the baby arrvies , I just hope im being paranoid , just as nickels said " he didnt let loose " lol . .
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889551 tn?1416184483
More likely it's your boyfriends baby, but honestly...the only way to know for sure is to have a paternity test. It doesn't matter how long you had sex with him, as there is sperm in pre-ejaculatory fluids. Condoms do protect against STD's and pregnancy, but they're not 100% effective.
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True Clysta but she said he didn't let loose lol sorry it won't let me write the real term.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
It makes no difference how long you had sex--it only takes 1 second and 1 sperm. More than likely it's your BFs but a DNA test is te best way to go.
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yeah I really have had crazy dreams and im becoming paranoid and I dont want to deal with the embarressment for the baby not being my boyfriends :(
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I don't think its the other guy's. This pregnancy is going to have you thinking crazy things and having crazy dreams until your baby gets her. Even though you know deep down its your bf child.
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the condom didnt break and I know for sure we only had intercourse for like 3mins because I ended it . .
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290867 tn?1333569278
Your best bet is to wait until the baby is born and get a perternity test. It also depends on when you had intercourse with the guys. The condom may have broken causing pregnancy to become avalod result.
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Its probably a good chance the second Guy isn't the father. But don't rule out anything completely unless you feel 100% confident.
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187316 tn?1386356682
Depends on when you had sex with them.
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