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stalker! help....

Hey ladies. Ill try to make this short and sweet. February 2012 hubby and i split up :( i was talking to someone for 2 weeks during february after my hubby left. The end of february i stopped seeing the individual and worked things out with my hubby (who knew about the guy i was seeing while split up) the first week of march hubby moved back in and i had to go to the er for horrible pains they gave me standard blood test all normal negative for pregnancy and i started my period March 5th 2012. April 5 2012 nooo period & around april 17 i got a sonogram after a confirmed blood test putting my due date December 10th 2012 :) the man i was seeing back in february saw i was pregnant and told his mother -_- why im not sure i guess he thought it was his!!!!! She got my number and harrassed me until it was changed. Then she had her friend bug my hubby at work about how he needed a blood test he of course blew it off. here i am several months later weeks away from having my son and she took my sonogram picture off my fb posting on her page saying he is her grandson. My husband asked her to leave us alone and that its not possible i got pregnant in february. My conception date is March 19th my fertile days after my period were the 15th through 21rst but i conceived the 19th no where near february!!!!!! She was told this but is still telling ppl otherwise. im scared shes gonna show up at the hospital when i have my son! She keeps demanding a dna test which i could care less about because i know my hubby is the dad but its what shes been doing now that freaks me out!!!!! Idk what to do
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3828469 tn?1358462325
What a psycho!
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I did once i deleted my sons,picture from her page
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3828469 tn?1358462325
Ummmm block her!?
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& he has remained by my side and gone to every appointment sono and ob. He was as polite as he could be and asked her leave him alone that shes crazy and if she has to have a dna test then.she can go.ahead and waste her money but told her this is his,son ect. She read that message then posted,on the sono pic that her grandson.will be here soon and my hubby is pushing for a dna test and that she will show him my texts between her son and i from.before i got pregnant ....its bad her brain is beyond rotted!!!! I read the message he sent her!!!!!!
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Well my page is extremely private wat happened was when i.changed my profile picture to my sono pic it said chelsea changed her profile picture and showed it so she was able to steal it that way. I have never heard of a mother forcing a child to be her grandsons when its not possible. I was actually able to delete the picture off of her page and block her and her son and her two daughters because she uses her adult kids fbs as well and would add ppl im friends with and read our conversations. She is hell bent on getting my hubby to leave me but i have included him in every detail that he wants to know.
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This sounds like a dateline episode, how crazy! Girly hopefully shes fades into the background because shes a unnecessary stress
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3178444 tn?1348441829
It's actually kind of hard to get a restraining order.. They get denied all the time.. No contact orders are issued more frequently for this type of thing.. Also if it's not already it would be a good idea to set your FB to private.. I wish you luck and hope you and your husband get peace soon..
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I filed for a protective order and i know she cant file against me for dna her son does but he doesnt do anything unless she tells him to and he didnt seem to care and said hes glad its not his kid but idk they are all mentally off. I wish she would just listen and actually do the math before she makes her son pay 450 dollars
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I politely told him this is when i saw u and this is when i concieved. He said okay i understand. Then outta the blue his mom texted,me. I texted him and said wth u gave her my number get her to leave me alone and he said he wasnt getting into it -______-!!!!!! What?!?! I went to the police and they said by her taking my picture off fb its not illegal. Im not a genius but i do know that sonograms and due dates dont lie. She tried telling me i was wrong and my due date puts me getting pregnant in february!!!! She will not stop and her posts always saying how im due soon and what not its unsettling
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1346146 tn?1299360497
If she comes to the hospital u can have her arrested.  What a nut!  You can also call the police and tell them what she is doing and get a restraining order for her to stay away. Good luck.
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Dont post on fb when you have your son,what his name is or any pics. Her getting updated info on who she thinks is her granbaby is gonna be adding fuel to her crazy fire. What does the guy you dated say about all this, does he think its his baby an is egging her on?
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3178444 tn?1348441829
What the lady is doing us harrasment.. I would very politely tell her one more time to leave you two alone or you will be forced to contact the police.. If you do contact the police they usually contact the person who is harassing you and tell them they need to stop or 'x' can happen. It usually works that is if the person is a complete nut job..
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