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1349185 tn?1276800699

surrogacy

im 44 years old and i had my tubes burned about 12 years ago, i suffered alot from depression so i had my tubes dones so i wouldnt have another baby. ive never felt good about it. always felt like i did wrong and have always wanted another baby. would i still have eggs, plus i have asked my daughter if she would have the baby for me, she said she would.... could this be done...could it be done on the nhs, would i have 2 pay for it. how would i go about it
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1303813 tn?1303159362
I thought if another blood relative had a baby for you it has high risks of abnormalities?
Wouldnt it be like IVF?? So yeah this can be done, but you;d have to pay for it... like with IVF, which in five years is said to take over sex and people will be going straight to having IVF, which btw has 1 in 10 chance... Would this be the same in your case.

I wish you luck

xx
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363110 tn?1340920419
yes, you still have eggs, but your chances for genetic issues would be higher. normally a risk for 35y old is 1:400......your risk is around 1:100 or 1:200 based on your age. dont let that scare you tho. I'm 23 and my first son has down syndrome. :)

yes your daughter could have a baby for you surragatly. you may have to pay for it but I'm not sure. ask your OBGYN about it.
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