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Honey, last week I cried because my potato soup tasted delicious. Yesterday I cried because my coat made me slightly uncomfortable while driving. These emotional outbursts are not grounded in anything logical, you just have crazy hormones crashing through your body, and it's completely natural and completely ok. Your husband does not understand because he has never felt that sudden flood of emotion. He's probably completely at a loss for what to do to help you. His inability to help is probably frustrating to him, so he's torn between distancing himself in case he makes it worse, and snapping at you because his frustration at himself for not helping is coming out in his voice and actions. Hang in there, sweetie. Find some literature online about pregnancy hormones and what husbands can do to help, and give it to him. Hopefully that will ease some of the strain, and don't feel bad about crying. It's part of the process, and it's completely normal. Just let it out, and remember to breathe.
Oh nooo! Well i cry for random reasons too. Its so silly sometimes. And yeah my hubby was a little distant at first but i gave him his time and space and he eventually came around. I think he was just overwhelmed and scared and didn't want to show infront of me. Its our first. So i understood his feelings. But hopefully maybe your man is just going through the same thing? Don't pressure i know you need love and support too, but they're just as scared as we are.