worried im having another miscarriage

[rachie204]

Well about 2 days ago I started havin tiny cramps but conviced myself that it was the normal ones.  Then hubby and I had sex yesterday and lastnight I had a tiny bit of light pink/brownish discharge which I figured was from sex...but then this morning I woke up still having cramps which at this point are similar to weak menstral cramps.  They also kinda feel like I just need to go to the bathroom which is just what they felt like with the last miscarrige.  My last miscarriage the cramps were WAY worse but I am still freaking out.  Hubby and DS aren't here, they were camping lastnight, so I am waiting on a call back from the oncall nurse and then I am probably going to go to the ER and get checked out as soon as they get home in a few minutes.  Please pray for me, I am so upset but I know that everything is done according to God's will and I have faith in that.  If we do lose this baby I dont think I will ever try again.  I am praying the pain is just from an infection or something.

[michelle148]

Cramping and spotting dosent always mean a miscarriage. How far along are you now?
Try not to stress out to much i know this is easier said than done ive been there myself and its all you can think about. Please let us know how you get on. Im praying all is ok for you.

[Michele, Katy, TX]

Oh girl, I am praying for you and your little one.  Please keep us posted and try to rest and relax as much as you can.  I know that's hard when you have other children; especially small ones.  But just try to take it easy and have faith.  You are a very faithful person and that is very inspiring to me as well as others.  Take care and remember that we are here if you need us......

[chitten]

I had pretty bad period like cramps from 7-15 weeks into my pregnancy, my midwife says its normal so try to relax as stress can uspet the bub :)

[rachie204]

hey ladies...sorry I haven't updated y'all yet.  We have been so busy this weekend.  We were about to go to the ER when I just said forget it.   I figured if i am miscarrying there isn't much I can do to stop it and I have an appointment for an ultrasound on Thursday so I couldn't justify spending $175 at the ER.  I am still having the cramps on and off.  They aren't severe but are painful at times.  I am trying to drink more water and I'm going to take some peri colace today to see if that helps any.  Thanks for all of your thoughts,  also I haven't had anymore spotting.  

[Leanna26]

I felt like that at 6 weeks, and had 3 previous mc... I went to the er to get checked out, mostly I was scared, and had no idea what a Normal pregnancy even felt like. But in the end, I got to see my little one and hear her heartbeat. So that relaxed me. Here I am at 35 weeks and 3 days now. Sometimes it is just normal to expierence that, but going to the doc may make you feel more at ease.

[betty12]

hey actully that happend to me exactly the same thing...but thank god nothing was wrong. i did got to the doctor and he gave me some creme stuff because it got really irratated down there from the sex and he said its normal to have some pink discharge and cramping after sex, he said sometimes your cervix gets irratated so hoefully thats what it is.

[Linzola1]

I hope all is okay. It has been a long time since we have heard from her.....

[MOM23ANGELS25F]

Rachie,
Don't fret hon..It's normal to have some discharge or cramping after sex and I'm sure everything is fine hon... Your cervix is probably just really irritated right now and the hormone changes are making you bleed..... I am keeping you in my thoughts today and will be awaiting your reply as to what is going on. *HUGS* Don't stress hon....

[JoyRenee]

Similar things happen to women during pregnancy all the time! There are going to be aches, pains, and cramps that you don't understand but are normal. We are not meant to live in fear. The opposite of fear is faith. I say that as one Christian to another, sweetie and I hope that everything is, indeed, perfectly fine!

[sadiesmommy]

I will pray for you and I am so sorry that you are scared, I hope the ER visit can give you peace of mind, please let us knwo how it goes!!

[mamaof6]

Im so sorry you are goingh trough this. I know its tough. IF that is indeed what is going on, we as christians, know that God is in control. that is what is sSOO helping me right now. I have prayed for peace and He def. has given it to me,a s i know HE knows whats best. But on the other hand, it may not be that at all. it may just be your uterus stretching and the ligaments and what not. i spotted ater having sex 10 yrs ago, when i was preggo w/ my son, and went to the ER, and he was (is) fine. ( i also had the cramping). so we just never know what the Lord has planned for us :)  you just take it easy, and go to the ER for a peace of mind. take care hun.

[LosingMyMindInGA]

just keep faith and if it's meant to be it will work out. I had my first m/c at 22 and had a stillborn at 24.  I had all but given up hope of more children...but at 26 and then at 27 I gave birth to my two youngest.  Sometimes the timing just isnt right. Hang in there and try to relax until you find out for sure what's going on.  I know that's not an easy thing to do ...but you don't want to over stress yourself.