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wud u be mad/hurt??
All thru my pregnancy my bf has only came with me like 2 to my dr appts due to his work schedule. Ok I got it I understood. Bt I been having a lot of discharge n my vagina has been soo itchy so my dr said to go in today n get checked out. My bf woke up kinda sick bt its his allergies due to all the weather channges soo I said if u nt going to work come with me to my appt. He acted like he was dying litterally. Thn knwing I have extreme back pain & even carrying my son in his carseat hurts I'm about to walk out & he says ur nt guna take th baby. I started crying bt grabbed my son n stuggled out the door. All he said wen I was leaving was I'm sorry babe. I waas soo hurt I started crying in my car as I was pulling out he comes out the door n waves like ima go with u hold on when he knew I was already running late. Now he's goood ain't sick no more thts wht hurts he makes a big scene like ohh I'm dying I came back home & he was fine. Like seriously I'm soo mad n he dnt get it. Wen I saw he woke. Up sick I got him water & went to buy him some pills so he cud feel better I doo so many little things for him & I get nothing in return
U shouldnt have taken off. If he wants to play games like that then u play back. Sit and wait say fine but u have 5 min to get ready lol. I know ur feeling upset and theres probly.more things that are getting to u. If he is playing games with u about dr apt then im sure he.does it with other responsibilites.. Cheer up and try to not let him get to u so much
I would be mad to. My bf goes to all my appts but its our first and even the little appts he wants to be there for. I would definitely be hurt if he didn't want to go even if its just to keep me company I mean its his baby too. at the very least in yiur situation I would have wanted him to watch your son while you are gone. Thats not to much to ask in my opinion. Hope things gets better girl
I would personally feel uncomfortable if my partner came to all of my appointments, but that's just me.. he comes for every scheduled ultrasound & that I love, because it means something to us to see the baby. Like another woman said.. getting my blood pressure, checking my weight, going over results.. he doesn't need to take off time or even give up free time for that. I can see why you'd be hurt though, all women feel differently about these things and I'm sorry that you had this disagreement.
Im nt even mad he didnt go im mad tht he goes to his moms appts bt,nt mine. Thtd where im mad at I see a difference being made. N like I said I knw he works n thts why he cant make it soo I get tht part bt today he didnt soo why cudnt he go.?? If I dnt ask for much thn the one time I ask u to be their for me u aint bt for others u are. Im getting depressed sorry ladies.
Yeah the dr had to check my vagina so thn he has little smart comments like ohh he gets more action thn me. Im like thn u shud of came so u can see first hand wat thy do. N its nt tht.he tried coming twds the end its little games he.does cuz if he really wanted too he wud of got dressed n ready wen I was getting ready too bt he didnt. He knew I was guna take off wen I was already in my car bt to nt have tht.guilt on him for "for nt trying" thts wat.he did come out knwing I was just guna leave I knw him soo well. He woke up sick I take care of my man. Wat hurts me is tht for his moms dr appts he signs up to go bt with me ohh u can do it all by ursrlf. Its just nt fair.
My man hasn't gone to a single one of my dr visits. But all 3 of my ultrasounds. I dont mind, not like much happens that's worth being there for. Other than hearing the heartbeat. But I have an anglesounds doppler so..he can hear that anytime. It doesn't bother me that he doesn't go. He needs to work and they are boring anyway.
Mines *** to every apt n its not always a good thing I can't do nuthing since he sits in n listen to da doctor its like havin another mom over my shoulder lbvs I wish mines a sit out sumtimes lbvs
My husband did the same thing to me in my gender scan.i did cancel the scan appointment n he was totaly fine n strong he was shouting n swearing n breaking things while he couldnt move before.this is normal honey
Lol yeah. My bf has been to the two apts with ultrasounds and thats all i want him at. Hes comewith a few times with my son but they just wait in the waiting room. My son gets to ancy lol. My drs good about being on time with apts and being quick unless i have.questions
I wouldn't know what to do if my bf had all that info from my ob I'd probably be stuck in bed for the rest of my pregnancy so thank god he doesn't hah
My SO did that to me last night. Today was the ultrasound and we only get one so I obviously wanted him there. He told me he couldn't because he has to help him parents pack. I was so pissed I now haven't talked to him in 24 hours and am still debating whether or not I should tell him we're having a boy or just wait until all the boy stuff gets here and let him find out that way.
When it was time for my first doc appointment I expected him to offer to come instead of.me having to ask he had nun to do that day he just stayed in bed sleeping I was sooo pissed I got in my car and cried and called him cussing him out. Now I dnt care if he comes or not I realized I like going by myself lol he has not been to NONE he just always asks how did go which makes me feel a little better
Mine is the same way hun I'd be happy to talk with you if you'd like just message me
I only wish my man would stay home. He has came to every appointment I.have had. And the whole time he is either making fun of purple (ovb im quit, where only I.can hear) or bitching that they give me a time to.be there and we won't get in until 1hour later. Lol I.keep telling him he can stay home, but he wont.
I agree hormones for sure lol .. i got like that over a dr appt with my bf recently.. I've been to every appt by myself because of his work schedule I've stopped throwing fits about it.. someone has to work lol
I think its hormones hun. I mean id be upset if he made me take my son but then he felt bad and was guna come. U should have just said just watch ur other son. I go to almost every apt by myself because we have.a.three yr old and id rather go by myself then lug them lol its my time away from the =) its ok, at least he felt bad tho it shows he does care about how u feelfeel
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