Can I be pregnant from getting fingered? PLEASE HELP. More to the story.

To begin with, my boyfriend fingered me and did not touch his penis before. Afterwards, I gave him a handjob and he ejaculated. He wiped it off with a tissue but I think some may have gotten on his hand. After that, we both washed our hands and he fingered me about 10 minutes later. My period is late and I'm kind scared. A little paranoid, yes.

[jonytza]

No you can't the man sperm dies after is out in other for you to get pregnant he needs  to come INSIDE YOU.

[MissJLJ]

Okay, I dont want to be rude.. But you cant possibly think that can happen? you must be too young to even be doing what your doing.

To answer your question though,  no. not possible. Sperm doesn't survive long outside the body. And if he washed his hands and it was 10 minutes later, its even more unlikely than it already is.

[medDUB]

It's okay, tough love, I understand, haha. But I'm just a little freaked. Oh, and I forgot to add, after that, I went to the bathroom, and a small glob of blood the size of a dime came out while I was peeing. Is that normal? Did he pop my cherry?

[proudmommyandwife]

you're not pregnant probably late from stressing about it but if you're truly

[proudmommyandwife]

Worried and need more reassurance test ¤

[mommyssbby815]

Uhm wowww, dnt wanna be rude but r u like 12?????????? This is the dumbest story ive heard, EVER.

[squigglesquish]

U can get pregnant from pre *** so if u think you may be pregnant do a test or see your doctor. Stress will also make your period late. :)

[squigglesquish]

Ok so they sensor c (u) m

[nicole8989]

Im locking my daughter in a room for the rest of her life now.   Listen.  U need to talk to ur mother.  Or father or boyfriends mother.   Better yet go to a health department. And get on some birth control.  If u dont wanna have a baby then STOP messing around.      u may be scared. But the BEST birth control.  Which is the BEST way for u not to get pregnant is to NOT mess with ur bf in any way shape or form. ...........    I am a mother of fixing to be three children.      And if i was ur mother i would u rather talk to me about this instead of doing things behind my back.  If u r going to be responcible enough to fool around then be mature enough to let ur parents know.

[greatexpectations2012]

Well, it is a little known fact that a sperm can live, on extreme occasion, out of the body for 24 hours. However, this is extremely unlikely.

Not to sound mean or bitchy, but you need not be doing this. You seem very young. Getting pregnant at a young age is hard. My cousin found out she was pregnant when she was 17. It was a shock and hard for the whole family. Finally when things calmed down, she found out she lost it. Many things could happen. Your friends could talk bad about you. Your parents could be mad at you. Your siblings could get jealous of the baby. Financi

[auds116]

To the people bitching st this post shut up and don't post of you don't like it because maybe you don't know her situation. When I was young my mom left me so maybe she's on here for motherly advice u.  Could smack you women for bring so rude! You women are acting 13!!!!

[Libbylou83]

Well said xxxx I am getting really upset with some comments on here if you have nothing nice to say keep it to you damn self

[auds116]

Ya you think , there grown  women they wouldn't be so rude

[Clysta]

Ladies, remember that there are no such things as stupid questions on these forums. What might seem like common sense to one doesn't to another - if people don't ask questions, they will not never understand. Please remember to keep rude comments to yourselves. Thank you!!

[Libbylou83]

Again well said like I say nothing nice to say don't say it xxxx

[deeboolady]

I thought we were on here to give support? Some of the things I just read were really harsh! No matter how dumb the question is the person still deserves to be treated like they have feelings too. But to answer the question yes u can get pregnant from being fingered! If ur bf had some sperm under his finger nail that could have been wet u can get pregnant! As long as the sperm stays wet when it dries it dies! But the best thing for u to do is go get checked out and not post ur questions on here cause there is def no support what so ever on here!

[medDUB]

Thanks for the support for those of you that are defending me. I've been stressing over this a whole lot and that just might be the case..

[proudmommyandwife]

Comments like some.above are.the reason I'm about to delete this site of my phone, some of you really need to be a little more thoughtful and less judgemental, yes the question maybe from someone young and they don't understand some things but that doesn't mean you need to be rude or judgmental. She's looking for support not to be attacked

[GabbyMonstaBear]

No, this kind of thing has happened to me several times. The first time it happened, I was just as scared as you are, so I took two pregnancy tests and both came out negative. That was about October or November of last year. Since then, I've had more incidents like that, but I am not pregnant. Don't freak out, though. As long as he didn't **** in his hand and shove it penis-deep up your vagina, you're fine. Also, if he did have sperm on his hand, if it's dry, it's dead. Just be careful and if you decide to go furter, get on birth control and make him wear a condom.

[Britbrat24]

Sigh* no sweetie wen sperm hits the air it dies

[alaysha]

Untrue sperm doesn't die on impact with air... it dies after it dries. Think of all the men that donate sperm. It is exposed to air.

[Britbrat24]

Oh well ive learned sumthing new thanx alaysha

[alaysha]

:) no problem! I actually thought it died when exposed to air as well until someone cleared it up for me.