HELP!

Okay, so i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time on the 28th, he wore a condom and he pulled out . When i got home i was bleeding but i knew that was because of me loosing my virginity. The next day was fine just a little blood then it stopped. Then this morning I went to the bathroom and I had A LOT of blood like a period, so I thought it was that and I usually get cramps but I didn't get anything. An hour later I checked and the bleeding just stopped. So now I'm freaking out because I don't know what's wrong with me. Im supposed to get my period around monday/tuesday. I hope I'm not pregnant. Im under 18 and I really don't want nor can I be pregnant, and I probably sound really stupid but I'm just scared.

[tobbeyj]

If you used a condom and you are sure that it did not rupture then I am sure you will be fine. I have not heard of your situation but think that possibly there could maybe be just an early period or your body adjusting to the change. Were you in any pain or discomfort? I would maybe call and set up an apt with a doc anyhow. When I was your age my BF and I would go to the docs together and get tested to make sure we were both safe in the first place. I dont think you have a pregnancy to worry about. I dont think its anything too serious but I would get checked in case. The docs will do a pap and ensure everything is ok. Hope this helps. Good Luck!

[mx364]

No, it didn't rupture , and my boyfriend double checked the condom after. But yeah I'll try to set something up. Thanks (:

[tarajanes]

It dont sound like pregnancy.i can tell you when i lost my virginity many years ago.i also bleed,it lasted few days on and off.or it can be your period.you may think its early depends when you ovulated.but im doubting pregnancy,you could always test in few days if your concerned.

[colie129]

I think you are fine! If you used a condom AND your boyfriend pulled out...then it is almost impossible to conceive. I know how scary it can be, and your emotions can also affect your menstual cycle. Perhaps it just came early due to your stressing out! When I first became sexually active with my boyfriend..I was just like you and would freak out! I then went on the pill and continued to use condoms and this helped relieve my fears. Try to relax!!

[mx364]

I hope, i ended up telling my mom, she said she's pretty sure I'm fine, and she's making me a doctors app to get the pill and check everything out. So hopefully all is good, and that I get my period tuesday, but it's probably going to be late because I'm stressing about it. I stressed about something else and it was a week late once, so i should just relax. :p

[JoyRenee]

Just remember the Pill isn't 100% effective against preventing pregnancy so don't just use the Pill and think you're fine. I know more people who got pregnant while on the Pill than anything else. And it definitely doesn't protect against STDs.

If your period is due this week then you did not conceive. You ovulate 2 weeks before your period, and that is the only time you CAN conceive.