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I have no choice

I have no choice

My moms making me get an abortion. Thank you all who answered my questions and gave great advice I hope you all the best with you and your growing family....
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Im pretty sure it illegal if she forces you under your will. Even if your a minor i think you should talk to someone about this. Let her.know how bad this will affect you.
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Your mom cant make you get an abortion...you know that...right? If its a decision your making thats perfectly fine because its something YOU have to live with. Just know that if you feel like your being bullied into it there is help out there and you can keep your baby.
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She cannot make you do it that is your choice to make
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Its your choice, please dont do it. :(
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Ummmm the last time I checked, she doesn't have a say in what you do, regardless of age. It's your body therefore it's your decision what you do. Please find another caring adult that you trust that will help you make the right decision.
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Please don't let ANYONE (including your mother) make your decision for you, you will regret it for the rest of your life!! At very least talk to someone-maybe someone you trust or even a professional but I beg you, don't do ANYTHING you're not sure of.
You're mother is forcing her choice on you-its your body, your decision!

Good luck x
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PLEASE NO...!!! YOU CAN COME STAY WITH ME....!!! I WILL HELP YOU RAISE THE BABY TILL YOU READY TO TAKE IT BACK... NO....NO..NO.... I AM SO SORRY BUT MY HEART SO PAIN TO KNOW THIS...!!!! (DO YOU HAVE IDEA HOW LUCKY YOU WAS GIRL?????) teary......!!!!
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You do have a choice, and a voice…tell her what YOU WANT!!! She can't force you to abort and I'm pretty sure that wherever you go they will take you back confidentially and ask you questions on what you want to and she won't be able to go back with you because of that confidentiality…even as a minor
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totally right by law you can not be forced to have an abortion, i work at an attorneys office, it doesnt matter if your 12 and pregnant its your choice to keep the baby not anyone else's
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They do counsel you while your alone and waiting. They ask you what you want and if anyone is pressuring you. It is your choice whether its to have the baby or abort. Dont let anyone pressure you. I have been in your exact situation when I was 16 so if you need anyone to talk to message me and ill share my story with you.
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Aww sweety !! Wish I could help .. Take care and thinking of  you!! If u want to chat im here
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You all have given some great advice I'm trying my best to help her through all of this all we can do is hope SHE chooses what's right for HER!
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This makes my heart so sad with so much sorrow . First your Mother can not make you do anything you don't want to do .   And what  ever you do don't do it make the rite decision .
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This makes my heart so sad with so much sorrow . First your Mother can not make you do anything you don't want to do .   And what  ever you do don't do it make the rite decision .
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This makes my heart so sad with so much sorrow . First your Mother can not make you do anything you don't want to do .   And what  ever you do don't do it make the rite decision .
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Have your mom watch an abortion video.some are on youtube I'm pretty sure she will change her mind.I was debating whether or not to get one but after I saw that I will never have one.
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If u need to hear it for ur self call a place that dose that. And ask them your questions. And if u dont want to. They can give u numbers and places. And will help u. Its not ur moms life, its yours sweets.. dont let her t ake your rights... Bless ur heart, and if u need anything were all here
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Don't let her make the decision stand up to het, there's plenty help for u and ul never be alone, getting an abortion could make u feel different and reflect on your future life
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Someone in their office if they feel this isn't something you want they won't do it.
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