I knew something was wrong

So I am miscarrying my levels dropped from 29 to 19 from saturday to tuesday. I'm so heartbroken even though I was so early it still hurts so bad. Why did this happen? What did I do? I was so attached and wanted this baby more then anything. I can't stop the tears the more I try the more they come. I have to go to the doc thursday to see if my levels went back to 0. I know its not possible but could the levels go down and then back up? I no prob not I guess I'm just looking for a miracle.

[guera209]

I know exactly what you are going thru i miscarried fathers day of last year. It hurts and i would say it gets easier and in a way it does and in a way it dont cause thats still your baby and you will always be its mommy and you didnt do ne thing wrong thats one thing you have to understand is it happens and nothing could of stopped it

[ravngirl07]

When can I try again do I have to wait so many weeks

[3littlemommas]

I have had 4 miscarriages the 2 most resent were Sept. and Nov on thanksgiving. There are so many different reasons why this happens. I don't think it gets easier. I has made me stronger. I am lucky I have my husband and 3 girls to support me. Now I am pregnant for the 8th time, I hope this pregnancy will be ok. Have you had any tests done?  I have had a chromosome test and a test to check my blood to make sure it doesn't clot. Then a dye test to check if my tubes are clear. I also have pcos.

[Clysta]

A natural miscarriage you can try again immediately, but if you had a D&C you would need to wait 1-3 cycles. Doctors prefer you wait 1 cycle at least regardless, just for dating purposes and such. It prevents the confusion of wondering how far you are and the worry when it doesn't match what you think it should.

[ravngirl07]

Should I wait until my levels drop to 0 or can I try now

[3littlemommas]

You have to wait until they go back to 0.

[Clysta]

As stated, you have to wait till your levels completely drop. Your body, regardless of the viability, still thinks it's pregnant and until they drop you will not ovulate.

[ravngirl07]

Ok. Has anybody ever had there levels drop then rise again. I know I'm in denial I can't help it though. I just didn't have any cramping or nothing just bleeding

[Clysta]

Many women have had hCG levels drop and rise, but it usually is a sign of a non-viable pregnancy - you see it in Ectopic pregnancies, as well as with vanishing twins. However, in your case it's clear that it is a miscarriage as you have bleeding as well as dropping levels.

[ravngirl07]

Yea I figured. I just wish the hurt would go away. I can't believe that it hurts this much when I wasn't far along at all. And why I just can't believe what they are telling me. I want to be one of them miracles where the baby lives and is perfectly fine. I think I need to take a break from this website for awhile thank everyone who has spoke to me I greatly appreciate your help. You are really great people.

[stacey10]

your levels dont have to go back to 0 they just have to get to 5 then you will start ovulating again, many women have concieved straight after a miscarriage and never have a period, good luck :)