I'm worried, but should I be?

[fallingdown82]

Last night my girlfriend and I both lost our virginity.  We've been together since May, and we've done all the normal things (in terms of "hooking up") that couples do besides intercourse.  

Well, last night we were doing it, and I did have protection.  While we were in the process, I would continually check every 30 seconds or so to make sure the condom was still on.  All of a sudden, after about ten minutes total, we stop abruptly.  Now, I didn't ***, and I still had the condom on.  But, when we stopped and I was out, I checked the end of the condom and there was *** amongst the OUTER tip of the condom.  As you can imagine, I was very worried and thought the condom broke and I had pre-cummed or something.

Well, to check to see if the condom did break, I immediately went to the bathroom and rinsed the condom off and dried it off. Then put the condom underneath the faucet and filled it up (like a water balloon, lol) to check for a leak.  There was no leak in the condom at all.  I did this multiple times, and there was no drippage anywhere.

So, the condom was still on at all times, and it didn't break.  I didn't ***, but I may have pre-cummed.  I haven't ejaculated in over a week (via bj) either.  We believe that she cummed, though.  It was our first time, so yeah.

Also, after we calmed down (which took about 5 minutes), she had to go pee. She told me when she peed, a little more *** came out.  So, that also makes me feel better as it is a sign of her cumming.

Idk. It was my first time, so I'm just worried. But, seeing as how those are all the facts..should I be?

[Kim1989]

you used a condom. the condom didnt break. i really dont think you should be worried.

[fallingdown82]

I think she just discharged.  If she came, everyone and the neighbors would know it.  lol

[tarajanes]

Well down for using protection,i think you are safe,your girlfriend would need to be ovulateing to become pregnant anyway.but your fine.maybe she should go on birth control also seem as though you guys are sexually active.

[fallingdown82]

I bought the day after pill (Plan B).  

Should she take it to be safe?

[JoyRenee]

Dude, it was HER, not you. Plan B is going to mess her up. I think it should be illegal. Take it BACK and don't let her take that, especially when she does NOT need it.

[martikadragoon]

Don't give her plan B. It was Her "juices" so your safe.
How old are you?

My hubby and I lost our virginity at 16. I didn't get pregnant til recently and i'm 21 and we're married.

Dont' freak out too much. you did everything safely. You need to make sure SHE is on Birthcontrol as well as using condoms. And if your that worried, you can get some Spermacidal foam to use with the condom next time.


You did the right thing about checking for holes, and making sure it didn't slip off.  Just keep doing that when you two have sex. Your gonna be fine and so will she!

Cindie