Issues!!!!!!

Hello Doc, I am a 27 year female married for 2.5 yrs now and still unable consummate our wedding. We were dating for almost 4 yrs before marriage but never had sex during that phase. Even after wedding, Initially we tried with a condom as we did not want kids - but a penetration has not been possible till now. I have researched quite a bit on the web and can relate to a condition - vaginismus. Also of late I dont have the urge to make love and we try to make love only twice or thrice a month. We very much want a kid at this stage and are trying hard - no luck. I try to relax and try various means to make it interesting but to no avail. I can feel my pelvic muscles contracting not allowing the penetration to happen. I have a very normal menstrual cycle and have no problems with that. We at this point are not sure if his penis is too huge for me also..We both are just moderately built. Can you please suggest ? Help?

[BritanyG]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus

Go to this website and it gives you a whole section on it and it should help you out.  I don't have any experience with it but I woul drecommend making a doctors appt with an OB, or even a nromal one an explain it ti them.  when I was reading on it, it actually tells you ways they can treat it, why it happens, and different forms of it.  Hopefully this helps you out!!