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PLZ help me im desperate here!!!

by 18bec, Nov 13, 2007 12:42PM
I am 4mnths pregnant but had sex with another partner twice in the month i become pregnant both times he didnt 'come' in me but my regular partner did on more than one occassion on one night. PLEASE PLEASE WRITE BACK TO MEE!!! idont kno hus it is and slept with them just one day apart my bf is so excited about it but knos i slept with him but i keep assuring him we used protection.
Member Comments (11)

by mamaofonetrying42, Nov 13, 2007 12:44PM
If you use prot. with the other guy. My guess is that its your bf, but no one is forsure. You will have to get a DNA test done to make sure.Good LUck

by 18bec, Nov 13, 2007 12:49PM
no we did not use prot.. but i kno he did not 'come' in me........ and also some one told me tht it more likely my bf as we had sex more thn once in th same night and he comd.

by carissarae, Nov 13, 2007 12:52PM
To: 18bec
wow you have your hands full girl with this situation. im guessing its probably yor boyfriends, but really hard to say, only a dna test can tell!! did you use protection with the other guy at all? because you can get pregnant from precum, but hopefully sleeping with multiple partners you are using protection. good luck!

by 18bec, Nov 13, 2007 12:54PM
I am soo upset and cant sleep or eat this is got to be bad for the baby... but i was drunk the first time and the scnd time he basicly took advantage also both times the sex only lasted around 5mins and with my bf longer.. thnx everyone

by mamaofonetrying42, Nov 13, 2007 12:58PM
But somtime there is pre***, so there is a chance. but like I said its prob. your bf.

by 18bec, Nov 13, 2007 01:01PM
ok thnk you but im jus worryin noew people will say it to be nice............. i jus want honest answers thnk you so mch ene way

by 18bec, Nov 13, 2007 01:23PM
any more people can hellp??

by littleone411, Nov 13, 2007 01:27PM
more than likely it is your boyfriends, just wait and see when the baby comes. if you are still unsure then have the dna test done. the reason i say to wait is because i have a friend whose children when they were born right away, you could tel they were his.

by littleone411, Nov 13, 2007 01:27PM
more than likely it is your boyfriends, just wait and see when the baby comes. if you are still unsure then have the dna test done. the reason i say to wait is because i have a friend whose children when they were born right away, you could tel they were his.

by cindy82, Nov 13, 2007 01:42PM
he knows what happened? just tell him you want a dna when it gets here to just be sure. pre *** or the real deal, there a 50 /50 chance eather way . good luck

by JH125, Nov 13, 2007 04:11PM
To: 18bec
Just because he did not 'come' inside you does not mean there wasn't fluids being ejected.  The only way to not get pregnant, and be sure you aren't, is to not have sex.  So, like the other's have stated the only sure way to find out who's child you are carrying is to have a DNA test done.  Sorry, but it is true.

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