Who is my baby's father?

[momof2boys73]

  If anyone can help I'd appreciate it. I am 99.995% percent sure who the dad of my 29 month old son is, but I can't be sure until the state gets him to cooperate and take paternity test. Was dating a man for a year (who claimed he couldnt have any many kids cause he had vasectomy), and have no reason not to believe him. I am so fertile I would think I'd have gotten pregnant by him in less than year. We had huge fight and along comes a guy 10 years younger than me who claims that he can't have children from childhood illnesses. So couple days before i had sex with regular bf, then had sex with the younger man, and then made up with bf and 4-5 days later had sex with bf. Boyfriend was dark skinned Puerto Rican...I am white with some Portugese ancestry   ,new guy was white with reportedly Italian background with curly brown hair , olive to dark skin, with cleft chin. My son has the curly brown hair, the same brown eyes ( I have blue eyes) and the cleft chin. The only thing is, he sort of has darkish skin...but could be from the Portugese part of my family. My sister is totally American but is so dark and exotic looking. Help! The younger guy has to be the father, right?  

[socgirl]

no way to know for sure without a paternity test...you had sex with these two different guys in such a short span of time, either of them could have been the lucky guy to fertilize the egg....just wait for the paternity test.  Good luck

[momof2boys73]

thanks, hopefully SOMEDAY they will give the test...but i am just curious about it. He really doesn't look biracial..i.e. his hair and features...but just the slight darkness of his skin throws people off. I have had people tell me he is black ( was never with a black man) and people tell me he is Hispanic. He really looks so much like the second guy i was with. Oh well, I guess you are right. I will never know until the results are in. I love him so much, and it really doesn't matter to me who the father is....it's just that I am pretty sure which one it is.