help please :)

ok so i have posted on here a couple of times recently because i am late but still getting BFN's... i am 9 days late, tested a couple of days ago at 7 days late and got a BFN but havent tested since.... and have gone in to the 'fertile' stage of my cycle as i do every month when i am not late... so should be ovulating in a few days if i am not pregnant... should we be bding like we do every other month or should we take it easy just in case i am pregnant?? please help im so confused

[Morrisfamily2012]

I would take it easy just incase. Are you af loyal? Mine are and I just knew I was pregnant at just 3 weeks along. Maybe test again and if it's still neg, then see a dr for blood test, and possibly an ultrasound.

[Bec1788]

Yeah I am usually regular. On the day I was supposed to start my period I had some light brown discharge and that was it and after lots of Googling I figured it was implantation bleeding because it was nothing at all like my period it was perfect timing but since then I've had BFNs :( do u think there is a chance I could be pregnant but just have slow rising levels? If I don't get my period by the first week in Jan ill make a doc appt :)

[Mommyjeep11]

Implantation bleeding would have taken place long before the day your af was due. It is extremely rare and it occurs a few day or so after ovulation when the egg implants into the uterine lining. This may cause some irritation which will lead to some light spotting.

Now with that said I don't know what the discharge was. However I do know it took me almost 3 weeks after I was supposed to get my period before I got a positive test. I just new I was pregnant though even before the test. My periods are like clockwork so that made it easy to know something was up. I was also using ovulation prediction kits so I knew I ovulated a week later than I should have that month and my dr said that is likely the cause of why it took so long to show. Just be patient and good luck!

[Bec1788]

Thanks so much you have made me feel heaps better :)