Extremely emotional and insecure

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I'm having a really hard time with my second pregnancy. We had a rough start where my husband was jealous of an ex boyfriend into the beginning of this pregnancy and started taking to an ex girlfriend of his, ever since I found out I've been so insecure and upset about how I feel about our relationship. Last night I was upset because my husband fell asleep while I was putting our other daughter to sleep and I was upset because I wanted to spend some time with him... He shut me down again. So then he was joking about how he wants to have a threesome. I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore and would rather be with someone else... Does anyone have any thought? Thanks in advance! :)

[3rdNdone]

Some how some way there needs to be a line of communication open between the two of you or things will get worse. He is insecure that's not jealousy. I know with some men it can be hard to get them to hear you, but you need to be heard- do not retaliate by shutting him down because he will more than likely think  its because you are in contact with your ex or someone else. It is childish for him to get in contact with his ex because of how he feels and say the things he has. It suc Ks being the bigger person sometimes but figure out how to get a positive reaction out of him so that you can be honest about how you feel. I hope all works out you shouldn't have to feel that way just know that some times men can be big 15 year old boys its that time were no one understands what is going on in their head nor their actions.

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I completely understand how you feel :) about being insecure at this time,