Hurt and alone :'(

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

So I been with my boyfriend for almost 3 n a half years we had a good relationship so we decided to take it to the next level and move in with eachother..
And then around that time he had been living with me I came out pregnant...

And thats when everything changed , the first night I found out I was pregnant he left me alone .. he came back and just keeps going back and fourth :'( to his parents house it hurts so bad when I needed him the most he was always over there.. I cry myself to sleep because he makes me just want to give up on him :'( makes me even more down because I know my poor baby feels my pain . And its so hard to eat while am depressed. Sad part is he lets his family be rude to me now I don't want nothing wit them .. I have no friends n not really any family members I can go too he makes me feels so ugly n useless .. what should I do? Need advice

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Gina your right I don't need too I jus never felt welcome around his family both his mom n dad have been rude to me n well me I didn't say anything or do nothing about it:( being the kind of person I am I just let them :(  and felt so miserable after thinking to myself what have I did wrong to these people.. and I really hope he does to me it seems he puts his family first even though am having his baby but I hope he opens his eyes.. thanks for ur advice n god bless:)

[gina_93]

You do not need to be around that type of ppl if he really loved you he wouldn't get his family mistreat you...about a lil over a month ago my bf guy cousin got into it cuz he took my daughter for a drive while he was drinking i got so pissed i followed him until i got my daughter onece i goti cursed him out to the point he hit me and unsalted me to my bf obviously defended me now they don't speek al when someone really loves they do everything so no one will hurt you...long story sorry.,,god bless you and hope he opens his eyes sooner or later

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Latinbeauty, thanks:) and yari thats awesome . And thanks soo much I know gods name is powerful!

[YaryMommy]

God bless you, the sun will shine so bright for you very soon in Gods name!
Yea my new last name is Silvas. :-)

[latinbeautykb]

Good!! You welcome. . & Anytime

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Yarysilvas, thank you I hope soo as well :) god bless you too! P.s . If silva is ur last name its mine as well lol

[YaryMommy]

I hope one day you find a man who treats you like a Princess! God bless! :-)

[delia25]

Your welcome :)

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Latinbeauty, thanks for your advice and definitely wont allow him to stress me out anymore I just need to focus on having a healthy pregnancy :) and not let him or his family get me down

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Happy baby2015, and delia thanks soo much for your advice:) I appreciate it so much ! Really needed this.. and he definitely needs to get his priorities straight.. thanks ladies

[latinbeautykb]

This blog really helps me and I can discuss what im going thru. I am 27 having my First child the Father of my child we have been dealing with each other for 8 Years!!! Off n on but like every since I got pregnant it wasnt planned like he Trip Hard to the point I dont know who this person is!!! He just Lost his Mother nov last yr! I understand its a Hard pill to swallow but like I feel like im Suffering my Son is suffering behind it. He is very childish immature acting this whole pregnancy its Sad he will be 31 n two wks!!! Like he stalks my fb I had to block him bc he wants to makeme mmiserable as he is .. I dont understand why he acting like this at all! This isnt his first he has 3 girls previously that are 9&10 .. but neway best Advice to give you.. Focus on your baby. Regardless hw much yu care abt this dude trust I understand I be up n down but at the end of the day I have support from my fam n God! Take this time to jus focus on yu n your baby n not him if he comes arround cool but dont allow him to Stress. You out!!! Pregnancy is very serious I have been in the hospital twice. Im 7 months nw dont have too much longer . GOD BLESS

[delia25]

You're welcome maybe this will be his wake up call that he needs to get his priorities straight hope everything turns out well for you :)

[happybaby2015]

I'm glad you're feeling better today :) We're Strong women!

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Mekalya, thanks :) I hope things work out as well and yes I'm definitely putting the stress to the side n out the door ! All u ladies gave me hope n made me feel so much better thanks

[Mekalya]

You have to stay strong for you and your baby now. If he doesn't show you that he wants to be a part of yours and the baby's life, believe me there are men out there that would take on his responsibilities and show you the love you need and deserve. Don't stress it's not good for you or the baby. Hope everything works out!

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Thanks sooo much for posting you gave me hope .. we been through soo much especially now that am pregnant I love him to death ! And as of now he has been texting me like crazy asking for forgiveness and telling me he will turn his life around I haven't yet responded to him because of how hurt I am ugave me hope that maybe things will work out n change for the better but first I definitely need to set some boundaries .. am glad to hear everything has worked well for you and your relationship :) thxz

[BabyMarquez]

I've been in the worst part of my relationship to the point where I felt I was being hurt by the one person I loved with all my heart.  After a night of fear and fight I was scared for myself and baby.  He didn't put his hands on me but I saw another side of him I couldn't believe was in him. After that day I was so shocked that how could he act the way he did so I had made my mind up I could not be with him anymore even though I still loved him but Mt fear was too big. It took me some days he begged me not to leave and give up on us but it wasn't that easy for me at what my ears and eyes experienced.  A few day's later he asked to go see him and this is while I'm prego. He asked for forgiveness and literally cried out and let his emotions out another side I also had not seen.  We cried together and made up and talked very seriously during that moment.  I set boundaries and standards and since then our relationship has been great. I think what people need as relationship is make sure you let your significant other you will not tolerate disrespect or any ****. Because if you don't it will continue.

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Abrenda, yes your right I am trying my best just to stay as strong as I can be n focus on whats to come in my future with my baby.. thanks :)

[Abrenda]

Don't not stress ur self out when u have ur baby that baby will luv u unconditionally ur boyfriend probably just scared & dont know how to show u he is happy but if he goin to make u Care u probably need ur space u dont want to lose your baby over being stress out

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

2ndandlastbaby, you are so right! That's exactly what I told myself lastnight he is only making me a stronger person. Thanks soo much!! And aww hope all goes well when u have ur blessing keep us updated on ur birth story!:)

[mommy2be_withbaby3]

Teshia I soo feel your pain if we are going through the exact same thing it really does hurt and brings me down .. but we need to stay stong and I sooo hope n pray to god that theses men of ours realize what they are doing is just selfish! .. but the most important thing right now is our babys I am bearly 14 weeks going on 15 and I pray god gives me the strength to get thru this even if I have to alne .. am really glad u posted on here and I pray things get better soon for u after u have ur lil blessing !!

[2ndandlastbaby]

And I'm 38 weeks getting induced in 7 days

[2ndandlastbaby]

I'm starting to think our men are the ones pregnant and emotional. I just went through the same exact thing except he left me for another woman.. go figure... it's been extremely hard but it doesn't change the fact that you have blessing on the way that's yours and no one can take that away!! Now that love is unconditional! Everything else is irrelevant... A woman doesn't know how strong she really is until being strong is the only option she has..

[teshia_tbelle]

OMG I'm going thru the EXACT same thing with my boyfriend. I'm 30 weeks now & throughout this whole pregnancy I've been nuthin but stressed. We where living together before I got pregnant & very much deeply in love with each other that we kinda planned the pregnancy. But every since I got pregnant he comes & goes as he pleases. Hes never here & goes back & forth to his folks house. He is never here when I need him& it hurts because I'm here all alone with barely no relatives as well for support. The previous posts here have been really uplifting for myself as well!