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Miscarriage

How long until your heart stops hurting?
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Im so sorry for your loss I also have had a miscarriage. Just cry when u want to cry dont bottle up how u feel and dont let anybody make u feel bad for the emotions that u are feeling its such a difficult thing to go through and I wouldnt wish it on anybody. In time u will be able to talk about it and it does get a bit easier with each day but just take it one day at a time. Sending lots of love your way and wishing u all the best xx
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My mom says miscarriages are just Gods way of saving you from the lifetime of dealing with a child who may have had complications their whole life. Being dependent on you for everything could you take that?? I suggest planting a tree in the back yard and watch it grow when you get sad go water it love it nurture it you will find it nurtures you as well. Sorry for your lost I hope this helps.
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I've had 2 miscarriages and the one thing that keeps me going is knowing that we will see them again one day in heaven. They're having the time of their life up there and they're very well taken care of and that brings me peace :-( sorry for your loss you're in my prayers
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I think it always stays with you. It is a shadow that will follow your life.. you think "now she/he would be about 3years old"
I would be heartbroken if I miscarried my baby girl.
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8526246 tn?1405601876
I'm so sorry for your loss . can't even imagine how you must feel.
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I am so sorry you had to go through this. I myself have had two miscarriages. It's really hard emotionally and physically. I had both of my miscarriages early on in the pregnancy, first at 12 weeks and the second at 10 weeks. Let yourself cry and let yourself be sad. I didn't really want to see anyone or be around anyone except my husband for a few weeks. It hurts but you are strong, you never forget but the pain subside with time
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I'm sorry for your loss
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I'm so sorry. I know what you feel I've had 2 miscarriages and you never forget or stop hurting but you learn to live with that loss.i believe everything happens for a reason don't give up on trying to have a baby, God is good and he'll give you your blessing.
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I lost a baby at 22 weeks I couldnt cope and needed lots of therapy. Always hurts but does get better in time. Luv n hugs xxx
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It gets easier over time. It is different for everyone. My heart doesn't hirt anymore. I still think about it, but i can talk about it without crying. I had one in 2010.
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Mine was three years ago and I still get very sad thinking about it and how old/who they would be. But I know I will meet them someday in heaven.
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:( <3 I cant imagine. Sorry for ur loss .
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It doesnt. My mom had a miscarriage and a baby born three months early that didn't survive (first and fourth pregnancy). She thinks about her babies everyday. The miscarriage was right before me and the preterm was her first 28 years ago. She has four healthy kids, six grandkids and one on the way-mine- and she still celebrates their birthdays and cries on their death and birthdays
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just found out last night they couldnt find the heartbeat,  just cant stop the tears..I do believe in Gods perfect plan, its just hard not to question these events... thank you ladies for sharing your stories
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Yes I totally agree.....I had a miscarriage back in January and I can tell u I think about my Emily Sophia every single day the only thing that makes me feel better is that I got to hold her and spend time with her for a few hours at the hospital. Just me and her. She's my Angel and she will always be in my heart.
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Its doesn't :( you have to just cope with the hurt I had 2 miscarriages and 1 ectopic pregnancy at 20 weeks all I can do is imagine how my little one would of been at this time its been 3 kids later and it still hurts hope you feel better just know everything happens with a propose and your little one is now your angel !
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A lifetime ....sorry for your loss.
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