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4460664 tn?1361450163

Scan was great today but ....

we had our anatomy scan today and we were decided on having a surprise baby, we'll hubby put me on the spot at the end of the scan and asked if he could know if I left them room and gave me some speech about its his baby too, so I said yes. Now he knows baby's gender and I don't. I can't help but feel really disappointed that it won't be this magical surprise in the delivery room because he already knows
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4460664 tn?1361450163
Thank god I'm not the only one feeling like this then I was starting to feel bad he hasn't bought it up at all so hopefully he won't ever or at least until delivery xx
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i would feel the same! its totally understandable. we're keeping it a secret too and i dont want anyone to know it. its my body and my baby and if i want it to be kept a secret until the end, that's what'll happen for everyone. lol. my guy realized fast there was no point in pushing to find out. he's actually pretty happy about it being a mystery right now! its pretty exciting!
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Understandable. I wanted this baby to be a surprise baby and let the technician know. After the scan my mom pushed me out the room and requested that the tech let her know the sex...After she came out she told me the tech told her and I instantly got upset...like my wishes were just ignored. Turns out the tech didn't tell her (hipaa violations) and she was just joking. I was surprised how the idea of her knowing disappointed me, so I'm sure you're kinda having that same feeling...almost like everyone is keeping a secret from you!
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