Sex?

[Ladyj0625]

Anyone feel obligated to have sex with partner because you know they want it. I dont want sex I dont even get turned on when i look at him right now. I dont want to see his private at all. I was more sexual the first time I was pregnant but I want nothing to do with him right now. Am I alone on this?

[Danni_Cakes]

You are not alone. Im 30+2 and my sex drive this week *****.Normally I'm ready to go but I feel so big and no matter which way I sit or lay I cant get comfortable. Since I can get comfortable I cant get into it. Its what my husband wants so I suck it up and at least take care of him. Since Last thing I want is some other women taking care of him.

[garlinmommy]

I guess I'm pretty lucky my husband could care less about sex. Yes every now and then we both need it. But he knows it makes me uncomfortable anymore. And he respects that. In my opinion relationships aren't about sex its about spending time together and talking... I've learned that being pregant.  Bc before I got this way I was a nimpho and now we value each other more that sex isint all we do... and if you think if you don't give your husband or partner sex they will ge t it elesewhere than they aren't much of a person in the first place. No matter what if he loves you and truely loves you that's the farthest thing from his mind...

[LBurkhart10]

I feel bad for my hubby. At 28 weeks Cuz of issues I was told I'm not allowed to have sex til after baby comes by my dr. And of course after u have the baby u can't have sex right away. So he has to go like months with none.

[smilez0304]

My sex drive was through the roof.. Until I hit 28wks .. Now it's just really uncomfortable n I could care less if I got it or not. Buut, as some of you other ladies said, I still give it up cause I know he has needs and he does soo much for me.. Plus I know that here in a few weeks when I have baby girl, he won't be getting it for a while lol

[kyles36]

My hubby doesn't cope without sex at least 3 times a week haha. I find sex first thing in the morning helps with my morning sickness.. Strange huh :-)

[Ladyj0625]

Im doing good maybe once or twice a month a right now.

[Sharonica83]

I love it...I heard sex suppose to be good for the baby..if u don't give him sex he will get it somewhere else...I try to get it from my husband as much as I can...when I get off work within an hour he goes to work therefore we make love once or twice out the week

[Ladyj0625]

Since I been pregnant he actually dont turn me on and I never really had to fake it before.  But last night I really would have done something else. I never really had a pain after sex so I couldnt help you.

[Heather2701]

Bump

[Heather2701]

Ftm here... my husband and i just had sex earlier!! So question during n after sex is it normal to have a little pain in your lower part of your stomach? not horrible pain just a little???

[mommybrandyozuna]

Agreed I just put out cause it makes him happy just like he goes the extra mile for me!

[Bri_izzle]

Thanks mommylece! Mine changes a lot. This time around I'm definitely in the mood more, but I don't think I could ever top my husband. Lol.

[bonitagirl747]

I like the way you put that too Bri zzle. Our men usually do a lot for us during this time, I know men see sex as love too in a relationship and it's nice to let him know I love him. I was just put on pelvic rest so I have to come up with other ways. I go back and forth between sex drive and no sex drive. Not much I can do about it :/

[mommylece]

@Bri_izzle I like the way you put that! That's a awesome way to look at it abd put things in perspective I think! :) I wish my sex drive wasn't so high but I probably think about and want sex Moe than my man does lol

[Bri_izzle]

I used to feel that way. What changed for me was knowing that sex is how my husband knows that I love him, his "love language". Mine is time. He makes sure to spend time with me, and I make sure we have sex when he needs it. It's not everyday, but it's probably at least 3-5 a week. Plus now that I look at it that way it makes me feel good just to know that I've satisfied him. Everything else, including the kids can wait; because when they're grown and gone it's just going to be the two of you left. We'll be having our 6th child in October so it's not always easy, but we make it work by keeping each other as our top priority.

[jelarin]

Just have the sex unless it hurts. I usually don't feel like it, but if we have time, it ends up being nice.

[DeAyunimommy]

No we had sex only like once a month if that...he was understanding but I knew it was killing him inside I only had sex just to get him to shut up

[babyjensen13]

No your not alone I lost all my drive to but he had kinda given up I think I have 3 more weeks lol