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Stupid people!

Actually, it's just one person, as of right now. She keeps calling me asking how i'm feeling, asking if I've shown any symptoms of a stroke(I had one with my daughter) ok, look, my doctor's office is right down the street, and if I can't be seen there, the hospital is closer than the doctor's office.  Im doing what I'm supposed to be doing, taking all the precautions. Why do you insist on calling me and asking me the same question every time I talk to you?! I realize she's just doing her job, but lay off for (insert bad word here) sake!! Ugh, talking to her doesn't make for a good day. I think I may have hurt her feelings, but she lives over 1.5 hours away, how can she get here faster than I can have someone drive me to the hospital?
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She's not rude, she's actually, too nice. I have support all around me. And I'm not saying I'm not appreciative, I am. But a call once a month, to ask me how I'm doing, from a woman that could care less, and is just doing her job, gets kind of annoying. Maybe I'm just having an off day. But it was good until she called. I think next time, I just won't answer the phone. Maybe there is a way to block her number.
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Ask her if there's a way to lessen the frequency of the calls, because it's interrupting your days and stressing you out. ("everytime you call all I can think of is the negative and it ruins my relaxing day. It's stressful.")  Or, if there's a way to reverse the contact - you'll call her if things change or "x" symptoms appear.  If she can't bend and her personality is bad, all for a new person who will listen to you. Even on government plans you can switch people :)
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I dont even know the lady. She's appointed to me thru my medical card. She's a pain in the ***.
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It's the nagging feeling. I know. I'm 2 days from my dd and ppl are blowing up my phone asking if I've had a baby. My family included!! Don't you think you'll know if I've had a baby? Please don't remind me that I am still as big as a house lol, Just take deep breaths and be glad someone cares :)
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5806286 tn?1375050370
My mom is kind of the same. She was freaking out when I was being monitored for preeclampsia, and kept thinking I was going to go into labor. Now she calls everyday. I keep telling her "mom, you live a minute away, you're the first person I will call." Lol. People are too funny.
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5891248 tn?1406410864
She is just worried for you, but I understand I had that feeling the other day and wanted to trip this person so bad lol
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