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come on ladies I need at least one answer I feel like im losing my mind.

take care of my daughter by myself at home and im four months pregnant. We are currently at her dad's house and every time we come over here all he wants to do is sleep smh when I don't let him sleep he gets really cranky and mean. I feel it is so disrespectful for me to take care of her all day at my house and now I come over here expecting to relax and I still can't do that because he wants to sleep rather than take care of our daughter. Im so irritated I just want to walk home should I leave hes still sleeping and its been like 2 1/2 hrs. Btw he is not working! So that is not an excuse to being tired.
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Agree with BearHunterMomma27. Obviously too young to be adding another child into the mix.  Do people even think about how things are going to work out before they get pregnant?!  Smh at posts like this,  very much shows the age by maturity and type of issues.  Sorry to be rude but let's be real
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Lmao how is walking home not safe that's so silly! Hahahah
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I'd leave his lazy butt. He sounds like he is very immature and doesn't think about his responsibilities. How is he going gto parent another child when he doesn't parent the first? I don't know how old you guys are but with 2 kids on the way if your "together" you should be living under one roof for your children.
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Don't walk home hun its not safe! Talk to him about it though. Figure out a solution so you both can rest.
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Ya I would not go and let him know if he wants to see her he needs to be awake.  Is not good for anybody.
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Sorry to join your forum the ladies in my 18-24 would not respond to my question. Im 18 years old thanks again
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I have been with him for three years. He is not allowed to go to my house because my brother and him got into a fits fight and my dad banned him from coming over. We mostly hang out at the park or his house. This is ridiculous though I live about 2-3 miles away and im willing to walk home. Smh thank you ladies
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I would leave with your daughter... Or at least talk to him and tell him you won't be coming and neither will your daughter until he can stay awake for a visit... Are you two in a relationship or just coparenting
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Yeah I would not put up with that. He needs to spend time with his daughter actually interacting and playing with her not sleeping. No point in being there to be doing Tue same thing you could be doing at your house. I'd leave!
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I'd be telling him if he wants to see her then he makes the effort and goes to your house
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