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just need a shoulder

My boyfriend and I are expecting Aug 25th and he absolutely hates the idea since we already have 5I between the two of us. It wasn't planned but I believe God wouldn't bless us if we couldn't handle it. But he is acting so mean and cold to me that it hurts and all I've done for the last month is cry and feel worthless. I hate this feeling and just want things to get better. How the Hell do I get him to accept this?
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Well he knew what he was getting into months ago so he needs to man up and accept it. when the baby gets here maybe he will change but don't be so emotional the baby can feel you.
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4250330 tn?1388621179
yeah well you dont get pregnant by playing with your self lol its both of the ppls faults yano not just one lol
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4542187 tn?1402677307
Well, it's too late to freak out now. If he hated the idea so much he should have taken preventative measures. Men act like it's all our fault lol that being said...he' ll come around! It's his baby...once he processes it usually gets better.
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4250330 tn?1388621179
YOU JUST NEED TO TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL DONT STRESS ABOUT IT BECAUSE IT CANCAUSE THE BABY TO BE UNDER STRESS AND WILL CAUSE THE BABY TO HAVE HEALTH PROBLEMS AND IT WILL CAUSE YOU AND THE BABY PROBLEMS IF YOU STRESS JUST TELL HIM HOW IT IS
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