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1821865 tn?1317522031

omg are you sure you are going to make it?

Until December yes i just happened to have a huge belly. Plus i am only 32 weeks my baby has 7 w 5 d to incubate i would not want him here yet. Why do people worry about my freaking belly so much?
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1255151 tn?1413891826
I am also due in December and poeple keep saying "must be any day now right???"... So irritating to have 2 months left when all the comments are like that. My baby is measuring on the big side though so maybe he will decide to make an early entrance. He was measuring over 4 pounds at my 30 weeks ultrasound- yikes!!!
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Uhg I've been hearing that since 5 months. 'Oh you look like you're due any day now!' Nope I have 4 months to go "omg! I don't think you'll make it!" Uhhh....thanks. I'm 39+3 now and I literally still hear it everyday- so ready for the comments to stop
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I hated when complete strangers would ask snd comment do I just started telling them I wadnt pregnant lol. Priceless looks
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Lol yep all I got is that I'm big for my weeks and if I'm having twins. I'm just 28 weeks
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9038886 tn?1402125726
I am the opposite and i actually get excited when someone notices my growing belly. Lol i just hate it when they say "maybe they miscalculated the due date".. or "your baby will be so small" it is so annoying!!! I just wanna pinch their nose lol. But we are all pregnant and beautiful no matter what size.. so let's not pay them any attention :)
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I'm due december 19th as well, but I have opposite comments. Apparently I'm not big enough. Lol.
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10777943 tn?1412955415
Haha my belly is huge. Has been since week 24. I feel ya! Funny thing is I have gained 25 pounds and I am 36w3d. But my belly looks bigger than a basketball, easy! You never can tell how far along someone is or about twins. It's all genetic and different with each pregnancy. Some women get stretchmarks, some women swell a lot, some women get postpartum,  some women's breastfeeding milk doesn't come in at all, some women are sick throughout... Every miracle has its own special journey!! Who is it for people to assume what's normal at a certain week! Psh. My personal favorite pet peeve is when people say "wait til the baby gets here!" It makes me feel like saying I quit then * sarcadtically* send this baby back if this is just going to get worse, children are diseases I can't believe I chose this... haha people are so thoughtless to the hypersensitivity of hormones!!
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I am on the other side, every not welcome comment feels bad, i have like 3 weeks left...people tell me: Oh how far are you??? When i say i have only 3 weeks left they will answer...really i thought you had 4/5 months left, you have no belly...are you sure you are not less weeks than what you think??? That baby will be small T_T my baby was already big at 33 weeks but is really annoying when they do that, if you have a big gorgeous belly then you are too big, if you have a small cute belly they will think is too small...i hate those comments that people say about swallowing a watermelon/melon/orange thing grrr makes me upset!!! So next time somebody says something say: Reaaally i find my belly to have the perfecy size :-D
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I'm not due until March 23, but I also have people express shock that it's so far away. They thought my due date was sooner because of how big my belly is already. Everyone shows differently.
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@Thehardwicks...Yes same here. Having all those issues too. Shoot I have gained 70 pounds and I'm 36 weeks today. If someone asks me again "Are you having twins". My response will be "Nooo triplets"! Lol Geesh people...I already feel huge let's just make it worse...Right! Ughhh #peoplehavenoshame IJS :-)
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8186845 tn?1415020547
Same thing here.. Their eyes are huge when asking DECEMBER!?!?!

Yes, havent you seen a growing baby belly??? December. And even though Id love to pop because lets face it... BH contractions, back pain, heartburn, and feeling like I cant breathe is not fun. But my bun needs more time in the oven!

Good luck ladies! Im 33 weeks on Tuesday!
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9440890 tn?1415878121
I'm due the beginning if January and I get this all the time. Looks of complete shock when I tell people I still have ten weeks. It's really freaking annoying and pretty rude imo.
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1821865 tn?1317522031
Yes exactly i am dec 19 i am fed up with this people.
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Mag im due the same day as you if I remember right lol dec 19 and im pretty big too but then my first was 8.6 and im not huge yet like I was, with him lol purple are just dumb I think lol to them your huge to use were normal and know what's going on :-)
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Join the club can't tell you how many times I have heard... Girl you are about to pop... You sure your going to make it till December. ...lol...I have exactly 6 wks to go & it can't come fast enough. ....
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They're just trying to make conversation probably.
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