pregnant n alone

[mommylady1]

IM 27 pregnant n single... So I will b 3 months next week n the father is not supportive. I'm a good person and we were together I don't get his actions it's like when I said I'm pregnant he changed. He is 39 and loves women. I've always dated older men because of maturity. I never thought he would by so immature. I'm close to his daughters who lives with him and the 18 is my support she goes to my appointments with me .. But sometimes I really get depressed

[jcheeks22]

Im 28w pregnant with my first and im single too! At times, I hate it but when I think of the bigger picture its really his loss bc he will be missing out. After 6yrs shame on me for thinking he would change but im a good person and deserve happiness.  You do too! Stay strong and stay happy :-)

[lalaizzykover]

With my first pregancy I was alone and depressed and cried all the damm time :( it was rough but I just prayed for my baby and relationship....it got better. Surround yourself with people that love and support you..ask God to help you get over your pain and sadness.

[Dessi88]

Sorry to hear that yu are going through that...my situation is somewhat similar... I was with my child's father for 3 1/2 years before I got pregnant and although he says he is supportive his actions speaks different...I often,more times than not,feel extremely depressed and lonely...the best thing to do is to find a kind caring ear and vent as much as possible... I am now seeking counseling because of it and due to the fact that I am at higher risk for postpartum depression I didn't want to take a chance...in my opinion men are the most confusing and conflicting creatures...bipolar in a sense...one minute they are one way and as soon as life changes just a bit they flip to a whole different person...don't beat yourself up about it and although I know it is hard you must pull through for yur baby...he will realize at some point what he is missing out on and if not... Take it as he was meant to bring yu only one thing in life and that's the baby and now that yu have acquired that yu no longer need him...that's the only thing that gets me through tough days...message me if yu wanna talk I'm here.