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4692056 tn?1365402990

restless :/

Is anyone else restless when thr spouse isn't sleeping with u?? My hubby is at work and I notice when he works late I stay up late as well sometimes I honestly think because he is basically my body pillow lol!
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There is definitely no sleeping for me if he isn't in the bed...even if he's home and not in bed cuddled up with me I feel unsettled, no matter how tired I am...
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4692056 tn?1365402990
Lol too funny I hope he learns to be quieter congrats and good luck mommy!
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4154024 tn?1363755731
another thing is he climbs into bed when my daughter (she sleeps in her crib) and i are asleep and he makes a loud entrance where it wakes the both of us up. he belongs on the couch. ;)
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Oh my goodness yes! I am the exact same way. I just need his body in the bed with me rather we are close or not. I just get comfort from him being there. Which is the weirdest thing bc i have always hated anyone being in the bed with me and slept so much better alone.
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4692056 tn?1365402990
Lol no I've heard of plenty of pregnant woman that can do without thr spouse in bed lol my sis hating sleeping with her husband in bed because he was a bed hog and she didn't like being cuddled by him while she was pregnant but I love when my hubby snuggles me lol
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Big time struggle when he's not next to me. Thankfully in 15 years I've only had to have 4 sleepless nights with him not there. I've had plenty more sleepless nights with him there but I'd rather him be there snoring loudly then not at all :-)
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4154024 tn?1363755731
i sleep better when my spouse sleeps on the couch. lol it could be his snoring, his toss and turning, is this so wrong?
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4692056 tn?1365402990
Lol thanks for the comments ladies! I was wondering was I the only one! I hate when my husband works at night the house feels empty after I put the kids to bed lol
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I can't sleep if my hubby isn't with me! I am just unsettled if he is staying up late and not coming to bed. I will be a wreak when baby comes.
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It might be the connection between your hubby and baby that's how we are, my hubby always knows when something is wrong with me or our son
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I am. My husband usually works until 3, but he has worked over until 11 several times and I cannot go to sleep until he gets home. It makes for a long next day. He is going to the mountains this weekend, and I'm not looking forward to it :(
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5173333 tn?1364761667
Haha, i'm with BarbieAnn85! I love my space lol
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4591205 tn?1410605174
no im restless when he is sleeping with me lol cuz hes a bedhog
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Lol yea my hubby leaves at 5 am and I go back to sleep til 8 or so once he leaves the house and my bed feels.huge!  :/ i.hog up all of the pillows and lay in.the middle this helps but there isnt a substitute for him holding me :' but soon we'll have our little darlings consuming our time and we wont notice and just be glad to lay down when we can :p
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