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sad and moody

Hi everyone. Something is just wrong with me or my bf. I am 33 weeks preggies i am always sad and moody. I stay with my parents. So i miss my boyfriend all the time. I am only happy when i am with him. But he does everything in his power to avoid me. He always has excuses if i ask him to come through. He spends most his time with friends. So because of this we are always fighting and last week he told me he gets bored because i am not fun to be with because all i do is whine and stay in bed all day. I mean really he can't expect me to go party with him in my current state. I am always crying and missing him badly. Now he's scared of making love because he claims he will hurt the baby. I am really  sad. Any advice please
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I have terrible mood swings myself so I understand how little things can become a huge deal. Unfortunately, it seems that you are having some real problems. One of them bring his immaturity. Don't lose hope but be very honest with him and good luck. oh and congrats on your baby! :)
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Maybe i should take him with so that the gynae will explain
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I have explained, even went with him to my gynae but he is just not comfortable at all. Now he ends up avoiding me. And. This is all taking a tall on our relationship. I pray that things will be ok once I've delivered my bundle of joy
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oh thats so sad but u shudnt be depressed cuz it will hurt ur baby.men are a bit insensitive.expln him having sex wont hurt ur baby unless u use differnt postions so the pressure doesnt come on ur belly.
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