sex during pregnancy :-(

[destinyb108]

Ok so I'm 27wks, due July 14.. Getting closer.. And so far throughout my entire pregnancy I probably had sex 4-7 times.. Now it's been like maybe almost two months since and I'm going crazy.. We suffered a miscarriage before so we didn't do anything the first trimester.. But now that everything has been good so far I would like to more.. Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship.. He's my best friend, we've had a great sex life in the past.. But this is getting ridiculous.. The less we are intimate the more I feel disconnected.. I'm starting to feel more like a friend that's carrying his baby.. We don't even passionately kiss anymore.. He says he feels uncomfortable with sex because of the baby but come on.. I had to stop drinking, smoking ciggs, having some fun, stop eating sandwiches, hotdogs, seafood, etc.. AND NOW SEX!!!.. Ilove my baby with all my heart but mommy needs a release.. Masturbation is no match for my hubby.. How can I get him to want me without getting on my knees and practically begging.. Anytime we've had sex during this time I had to initiate.. Should I take it as a lost and wait til after pregnancy or can someone help me get my rocks off now??.. Lol so to speak

[destinyb108]

Yea it is rough.. The other day he had the nerve to say its just for right now because I don't wanna do that to my baby "control yourself"... I almost took his head off, like hello... Pregnancy is about nothing but self control.. Can't do this can't do that.. And I can't do the one thing that got me in this position?..lol but I know.. I'm almost there.. I'll be patient

[Daniellewardwell]

I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels that way my boyfriend doesn't seem to be attracted much to pregnant women so when I go at least a week without it I get very emotional because we like you guys we don't passionate kiss or anything anymore it's pretty much a wham bam thank you that's at so I'm hoping after I have the baby in 8 days that things go back to normal more sex more cuddles being more compassionate with each other some men just aren't into it and it seems that mine and yours are the same when it comes to that and I think he only has sex with me when I start complaining about it cause I won't shut up but I feel your girl its rough

[thenewmrs_b]

Tell him how you feel and maybe have your Dr  tell him there is no danger. No matter what just remember his actions are based off concern for you and baby :)