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Anyone not sexually active with their man at all? And feel guilty? I'm 15 weeks. I hate sex. I tried in the beginning but eventually gave up. So then I was doing the oral thing and now I'm always full of water or food so I feel like if I give oral I'll throw up. And its happened before lol throw up everywhere. I just feel bad.. He is understanding and says he isn't mad . anyone else having these issues?
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10287766 tn?1410888920
I hear ya ladies! Try and fight through it though, we don't want our men feeling forgotten!
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My sex drive is through the roof. I want it all the time. My hubby cant keep up, i have to masterbate wen hes at work, and im all over him. I have to get it every morning and nite.
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I'm 34 week's and I can't remember when we last did  it.. My sex drive just went down hill.  Idk if it's the same for him too because he doesn't ask for it or oral either and it worries me because if he ask I won't shut him down but I feel as if he doesn't want me anymore.  Last time I made an expression I can't wait till baby is out so we can have normal sex again and he agreed but we both laughed about it.
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I'm 30 wks and Yes I feel the same way it started off as sex being on a daily basis now it's like a once a week thing if that sometimes I feel my baby kick while doing it and it freaks me out and other times my stomach gets hard and I get super uncomfortable and I won't let him finish he understands but I know he gets really upset abt it especially since we use to do it on the daily now he's lucky to even get it once a week
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I am 37 weeks. Had sex for the first time in over a week. There was blood everywhere. Im worried. I feel crampy and my stomach feels so hard. I stopped bleeding after a few hours but there were chunks. Was it my mucus plug? I have a dr appt fri. I dont hurt really bad but havent felt the baby move a whole lot either.
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Yes I'm in the same boat ever since I got pregnant I am so not in the mood and my husband of course is he says he understands and isn't mad but I can tell it frustrates him and I feel so bad
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I have CERO desire. Last time was 3 wks ago, basically he just stopped asking me for it. I feel horrible :( he is the sweetest thing and I just wish this could change so I can give it to him as much as he wants.
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Omg... I ask my husband every day for it...and he is scared .I wont it every day..but he give me only like once a week
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Im the same I can't enjoy having sex at the moment because every time when we try to I'm so uncomfortable either when he's on top or I'm on top uncomfortable for me in I feel bad but he understands
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I've had the exact opposite problem. In the beginning we were having sex all the time but it's literally been twice this whole summer & momma needs some lovin! I'm almost 36wks & feel unattractive & unwanted. I have the best man who's sweet & attentive & talks to the baby every night...he just want give me any!
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10006638 tn?1408770818
Same. No sex since got preg. Just don't feel in the mood. AT ALL.
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I'm 36weeks and I have to force myself to have sex. Ugh. At the beginning I was a horn dog lol idk wats happening
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I'm in the same boat.  Poor hubby.  He is very understanding tho.  
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I'm in the same boat.  Poor hubby.  He is very understanding tho.  
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My sex drive has completely gone down hill since I got pregnant. Before my fiance and I would have sex every day and now it's hard for me do do it at all. I feel absolutely terrible for not having any interest. The first time we had sex after we found out, I almost fainted afterwards. I felt dizzy and nauseous. It was not a good feeling. I wish there was something I could do to change how I feel :(
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Yes! My libido has gone way down since my belly has gotten larger. Im just never in the mood so i force myself sometimes but then it hurts and feels sore. I feel really bad so sometimes i try my best to get in the mood before we go to bed !
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You wouldn't belive it am 4 days to my due date and am still doing it..my drive is crazy and my husband dont wanna do it anymore he thinks his gonna poke baby's head...lol
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9832901 tn?1406249569
I am in the same boat. I couldn't have sex for two months due to subchorionic bleed. I am now three months and my doctor ok'd it. I tried yesterday and I just didn't like it. No oral sex due to horrible gag reflex lol... I told my hubby we can do it occasionally. I'm basically just doing it for him because I have no desire either. You're not alone, glad I'm not either!!
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Tomorrow I'll be 28 weeks and haven't had no sexual appetite we only do it once a week it's like i want but when I'm in the moment I'm just thinking i don't want this lol...but he understands
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16 weeks prego and DO NOT want anything to do with anything sex related. Either too tired, too sick or both. I feel horrible so once a week I try and just go with it, but I have no interest. Makes me mad  
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My sex drive has been crazy...... I want it all the time. My husband told me this morning to leave him alone he needs rest lol usually that's me saying that to him....... 2....3 times as day
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Im 32 weeks an cant say when was the last time but it be like that tho I feel bad too
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10154352 tn?1459823787
Yea I have my ups and down
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Same here I'm 28 weeks I'm not feeling sex at all.  or anything sexual
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