waiting 6 weeks?

[bbm1188]

I had a csection last friday. So I know I have to wait 6 weeks to get it on with my hubby but honestly this is going to be hard lol it hasn't even been two full weeks and I'm already sexually frustrated and obviously would never try anything cause im scared of making things worse. I heard some women had sex before the six week mark. Has anyone done this? No judgement but I was curious I guess. Did your doctor give you the ok? I'm scared in a way that ill cave before the six week mark just bc me and my husband are nyphos for eachother. I know tmi but we've never gone this long without. And we've been together almost 5 years. Lol I feel so awkward talking about this but my hubby keeps bringing up sex, I ke p complaining we can't have it. This just kinda ***** lol

[bbm1188]

You have to wait after a csection for a lot of reasons. And my hubby only likes penatration lol I'm glad personally he doesn't like blow jobs haha. Got lucky there. Bliss I msged you back. Add me on fb

[blissmomma]

I agree.. We are doing good :-D I might have to do the same wait tell I quit bleeding!

[TimTamDownUnder]

Im sure u cld try something without penetration??? Ive never had a caeserian so I wouldnt know. Do u have to wait 6 weeks because of the penetration or because of the uterus contracting after orgasm?? If not, then go for it :)  maybe stay clear of missionary so ur stitches dont rub :/ lol

[bbm1188]

Lol mine was humping me in his sleep. I was like ok?Weirdo. Yea we had very similar symptoms towards the end. Im glad its over for real. It was pretty exhausting. I mean now not sleeping is exhausting but I'm actually adapting pretty quick to it thank god. How are you and your baby doing? I'm going to wait for the bleeding to stop before I attempt anything. Thanks for everyones input. I go to the doc friday ill see what they say lol probably wait 6 weeks.

[blissmomma]

Lol I feel like our pregnancy have been the same lol we could have been twins lol.minus the c section I had mnine natural( no epidural) ( it didn't work)  My husband almost raped me the other night thank God the baby woke up to be feed lol I think a week would be two early plus I have stitches.

[danika0913]

I only waited 2weeks after my c section then my husband and i started having sex again. I never got an ok from the ob we just attempted and it didn't hurt so we continued.

[hthompson1228]

I did not wait with my last one and i didvnot have a c section. We went slow. When I went for my follow up he did ask if I had sex I told him yes so he sent me for pregnancy test but he did not say anything about it

[Baby_momma18]

I had my 1st as a c-section too & I didn't wait the 6wks. Just take it easy, nothing fancy, u Don want to tear anything & b safe!! Back to back cesareans aren't good.

[KarrieP]

I waited till 4 weeks post partum.  If breastfeeding be prepared to leak.  My Hubby got sprayed it was crazy but funny lol. I was a little tender but it was nice and worth it.

[bbm1188]

Ok I'm glad I'm not the only one lol my husband has been working out at his new job and its killing me lol

[blissmomma]

I had my baby on the 13 And I'm dying as well!!!