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pregnancy at 40 :-/

Just found out I'm expecting, really nervous, I'm 39 and have a 13 yr old and 10 year old to a previous relationship. Been with my fiance now for 2 years, worried about being too old :-( xx
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I am 39 today and have 15, 13, and 9 yr old. From ex. It will be 1st for my SO and he just turned 40. We been together 2 yrs. Congrats!! You can do it!!
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I'm 38 and 8 weeks with my 3rd. My good daughters are 19 & 15 (previous marriage). This is my husband's 2) 1st. We have tried for 2 years!  Very excited!  Congrats to you!
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There is always a higher risk for birth defects such as down syndrome at a later age, but chances are, you'll have a healthy, happy baby.
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I am 45yrs old and going thru IVF as I write! We initially planned on using a donor egg, but the insurance company insisted on checking my lands before approval.  Turns out they were much better than anyone expected.  They are apparently in the range of a 37yr old.  We decide to go thru IVF using us, as neither my husband or I seem to have anything wrong with us!  We are hoping the 3rd time is a charm as we tried one 1/2 yrs ago unsuccessfully.  
Our Dr's main concern is genetic abnormality, so we will have our embryos tested before implantation.  I have a good feeling about this trial!  Fingers and toes crossed!  :) Best wishes!
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3605625 tn?1385017548
I too have a 13yr old and a 10 yr old from my ex husband and just had my 3rd at 38 years old to my new partner! You can do it!
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Too old???  Hon I'm 47 & just found out I'm expecting #4.  My other kids are 27, 24 & 19.  Talk about starting over.  I should be having grandbabies.  
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Congrats!! 40 is nothing :) don't worry!
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I'm 41 and am having my third as well, 10 and 12 year old from first marriage.  I was nervous as well but so far so good.  Enjoy and congrats!
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5300020 tn?1376762379
I have several friends in their 40's who have all had good pregnancies and beautiful healthy babies! Congrats to you!
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Congrats! I hav a 3 yr old & preggers with # 2 due in Jan. I will turn 38 soon!! I feel good.
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congrats and enjoy your pregnancy!! I will be 39 at time of delivery with our first.  
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