I've always been very active, but when I had a m/c this past February, everybody advised that I need to slow down and drastically alter my workout schedule; although I doubt I did anything to actually cause the m/c. I'm a very healthy 40 year old and I used to figure skate 2-3 days a week and I'd run 3 days a week plus do pilates and ballet once a week. I haven't run at all since February and drastically cut down the other excercises that I was doing. Now I just walk a couple of miles most days and I still do pilates and ballet once a week. This past month DH and I started TTC again and he is really paranoid about me skating and possibly hurting myself. I've skated for many years and am confident in my ablilites, but now I'm paranoid and not sure if I should continue to skate or give that up as well until after I have a baby. I was wondering if any of you were very active athletes and how you delt with TTC. I planned on giving up skating and pilates as soon as I get pregnant again, but to give up everything indefinately while TTC is a depressing thought; not to mention the fact that I've already put on weight since I was pregnant the first time.