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791083 tn?1239308805

Just need Support

I'm really sad....because we lost our first baby
I was working and I notice when I was in  the bathroom I see  blood just a little I was back in the bathroom in like an hour and I seen ore an more I call mu husband  because  I was so nervous I couldn't remember my doc name .....We when to see her and she did the u/s and found the baby stop growing in the week # 6 ....no heart beat .....
really hard for us ....a lot hope and dream dissapearing in the blink of the eyes but only God knows way
I'll be at the Hospital Monday for a D&E I want everybody pray for me
I'm feeling lonely  really hard moment
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427454 tn?1315500950
I am so sorry for your lost.  You are more then right, God knows best.  You hang in there, and know that you are in my prayers.  I can relate to what you are going through, but I can say that with time it gets better.  Sending hugs your way...

Love Yolanda
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I am very sorry for your loss.  I too lost my baby just a few weeks ago at almost 17 weeks.  It was one of the most heartbreaking things I have ever gone through.  It was my first.  Sadly there is nothing anyone can say to make this time better for you but please take care of yourself and if you ever want to chat...send me a note.  
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419158 tn?1316571604
I am so sorry for your loss:( You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so  sorry for your lost I know just how you feel.  I've had 2 miscarriage and a stillbirth.  I still grieve for them but I am not giving up hope.  Give yourself the time to heal and grieve.  Is funny the more I have told people about it the more they tell me my mother , sister, friend etcs. had so many miscarriage and when on to have healthy babies.  That gives me a great deal of hope for a happy ending.  We think this rare but unfortunately is very common but not easy to deal with.  My prayers and thoughts are with you.
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377493 tn?1356502149
Oh honey, I am so very sorry.  You are not alone!  Sadly, many of us have experienced this and I would not wish it on anyone.  You have my prayers, and please know you can turn to us for support.  As Yvette said, allow yourself the time you need to grieve, there is no need to hold it in.  I am sending you a huge hug, and we are here for you.  Amanda
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178698 tn?1228774338
I am so sorry for your loss.  I know what you are going through.   You are in my thoughts and prayers.    I promise will get through this, but in the mean time grieve your loss with your whole heart and soul and cry your eyes out.   Take care of yourself!
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oh hun, im so very sorry for your loss.. how utterly heartbreaking.. all thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.. Give yourself a little time to be kind to yourself and recover from all the stress and heartache.. Hope is a very powerful word and a very strong healer.. take care and keep in touch.. lots of love and hugs..

Athelas
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I am so sorry to read this. I hope you find the strength over the next few painful days and weeks. I know how you feel its the worst in the world. I lost mine at 8 weeks and even now a year later and even being pregnant again I still look at the scan photos of my first one. I wish you the best of luck to you and your partner - take one thing away from this. You conceived and miscarrage at our age is so common so the fact that you can concieve is such a great big thing and you will be pregnant again in the future for sure.
Hugs and Hugs
Tivey
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I'm just so very sorry that this happened.  This is such a loss for you both, and for you especially because of that special connection we have with our little ones when we are pregnant.  Take care of yourself. My thoughts are with you.
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480331 tn?1310403529
I'm also very sorry to hear this.  Please take special care, and know that thoughts and prayers are sent your way for a peaceful recovery.  Pam
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437027 tn?1670266352
I'm so very sorry for your loss.  I have been through it, including the D & C.

Take time to grieve and heal.  God bless you during this difficult time.

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Oh Honey I am so very sorry!!! I know, that doesn't help much but I want you to know that this is the place to be for lots of hugs and prayers. I will be praying for a quick recovery for you and hope that you will be able to conceive again soon with a healthy pregnancy...Hang in there!!!  Sending big hugs your way!!
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