Our Pregnancy Support Forum is for women 35 years and older. This is where you can communicate with other women who share your interest in pregnancy and childbirth issues. This forum is not monitored by medical professionals.
Sep24325, I am really sorry to hear this. I had been going through something very similar, but a little earlier in the cycle. When I went in @ 6.3 weeks they saw no heartbeat but said they would have me come back in one week as 6.3 weeks CAN be too early to tell in some women. I had to then have my HCG levels tested and went back in at 7.0 weeks (maybe 7.1) for another appointment to learn how to give myself an anticoagulant injection daily.
I asked them to not make me wait until the end of that week for the repeat U/S and to let me come in for the repeat while I was already there. They were reluctant but they agreed.
Now, my HCG levels were pretty high (1st one about 34k, 2nd one about 46k) and with levels that high they say you should nearly always be able to see heartbeat and fetal pole (embryo), so lthey were not optimistic they would see anything this time around.
But for me at 7.1 weeks they DID see a heartbeat. I was fully prepared to not see one and then I would come back on that Friday (7.4 weeks) for the confirmation. But at 7.4 weeks if they did not see a heartbeat then that was the sad, painful truth we would accept.
Now, for your own comfort you may want to ask if you can go in for one more repeat u/s prior to your procedure, so this way you are comforted in knowing you are doing the right thing. When I went in at 7.0 or 7.1 (can't remember the day) the ultrasound tech did tell me there was a remote possibility that she still wouldn't see anything, but in my own heart I knew that what we either saw or did not see would be our answer.
Have you had your HCG levels tested? THose are also a good indicator of how things are going when the ultrasounds are too early to see anything.
I know how hard this is. It is really, sad and the waiting is even worse.
I would have 1 more U/S to be sure and get at least an HCG that shows your levels are going down...I sometimes wonder if I got a DNC tooo early ....but I was 10 weeks and everything was only measuring 7.5 weeks so there should have been a HB by then. good luck
I am having the same here. At eight weeks Went in for transvaginal Ultrasound, nurse saw the sac and she saw no baby. Asked me to come for evac but I refused . Told her I'll rather wait another week or two, miracles still happen and I am having all the preg symptoms. Let's hope in God that all will be well. OLATWINS- LONDON
Hello All -- THANKS for the words of encouragement! Unfortunately, I started cramping and spotting this morning and have a DNC scheduled for tomorrow.
Back "in my day" you'd miss a period, take a pregnancy test, and you were either pregnant or not. If you were, you'd enjoy it until the end, whether it was until birth or until a natural miscarriage. To know you are pregnant and go in for an ultra sound and then be told nope -- no heartbeat ... and then wait ... questioning everything to the nth degree ... feeling every twinge and think "is this it" ... is just so unnecessary. It would have been so much easier to miscarriage naturally. And by that I mean to have been allowed to enjoy my pregnancy until the end. To start spotting, see the doctor and then have a DNC. The past week of mental torture was just so unnecessary! I have experienced both ... I am 44 yrs. I have had 2 healthy children and have had two miscarriages. I can honestly say that this experience was cruel!
What if you did see a heartbeat at your previous 2 u/s, and then didn't at the last one. I'm at 8 weeks (fetal age shows to be at 7wks 5 days). Today there was no heartbeat. Last week there was. When I asked if there's a chance it will come back, or it just isn't visable right now, the np said no. But the doc will check one more time before the d&c proceedure. Anyone had a heartbeat disappear then reappear????
Well, I'm a 6.3 week no heartbeat, 7.0wk 133 heartbeat and will go in for my 3rd u/s at 9.2 weeks triple check things. We were so elated to see heartbeat last time around and (as I've stated before) my symptoms are going crazy, but I'm still so nervous to go in for my repeat for just that very same reason...what if....
Sep24325, I agree with you that the torture of not knowing and even being in the situation of not knowing is really difficult. However for someone like me, who's high-risk and has to be monitored, it's teh cruddy part that has to be contended with. I wish I could have avoided these last 2 weeks of anguish and really just relish in the fact that last week we had a healthy heartbeat!
WendyG, I don't know the answer for you, but will be wishing the best for you.
I had two beautiful sonograms at 5& 6 weeks nice strong heartbeat, today week 7 I saw growth and couldn't see a heart beat, but we detected a fait heartbeat at 114 bpm, my doc says to have faith and come back in a week. Has anyone every experienced this before? Can you not see a heart beat but hear it? anyone?
I had 2 ultrasounds with a day of eachother one said I was 7 weeks prego the other 6.5 weeks prego the embryo measured just under 5 mm and yolk sac 17 mm . There was no heart beat and the dr say there is no hope and to have the dnc I am waiting till Monday one week from first us to check again . Has anyone gone in and seen a heartbeat at this stage after not seeing one ?
How far along are you supposed to be? Was this a portable US or a permanent machine? There can be a HUGE difference in quality between the two. Was it the same ultrasound technician on the same machine both times?
I think your doc is jumping the gun a bit...7 weeks is still early for a heartbeat...I think you are right to wait.
Hi there just wanted to add to this, I too had no fetal pole detected at 7.5 weeks so I went and got a second opinion after checking HCG was increasing and heartbeat and baby was found :) always get a second opinion!
The Content on this Site is presented in a summary fashion, and is intended to be used for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be and should not be interpreted as medical advice or a diagnosis of any health or fitness problem, condition or disease; or a recommendation for a specific test, doctor, care provider, procedure, treatment plan, product, or course of action. Med Help International, Inc. is not a medical or healthcare provider and your use of this Site does not create a doctor / patient relationship. We disclaim all responsibility for the professional qualifications and licensing of, and services provided by, any physician or other health providers posting on or otherwise referred to on this Site and/or any Third Party Site. Never disregard the medical advice of your physician or health professional, or delay in seeking such advice, because of something you read on this Site. We offer this Site AS IS and without any warranties. By using this Site you agree to the following Terms and Conditions. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your physician or 911 immediately.