confused plz advice im 39 weeks and drama

[denyce89]

Me and boyfriend are 11years apart he's older we been fighting a lot thru my pregnancy but always end up back together he's not cheating but I'm so insecure right now that that's always my first thought he always breaks up with me over what I believe silly things he's going thru stress so am I being this is my first pregnancy we had broke up two months ago and got back together I been moody and emotional and feeling more scared and thought then before because its getting closer to have my son literally I'm due in five days and he once again broke up with me over what we always seem to fight about Facebook I've never cheated on him to give him a reason but he says I talk a
Bad about him because I made friends with two girls I have mutual friends with but don't personally know now I know I shouldn't tell strangers my business but since I've gotten pregnant my friends disappeared so I been real lonely and those to girls became my company on Facebook instead of going to my boyfriend and tell him how I feel I've vented to them told them how I feel what he does I don't like and what not but they gave me healthy advice and also shared there pregnant experience and relationship and we bonded he logged in my Facebook read all my conversation including a innocent talk I had with a male friend from high school years ago he doesn't want me and nor do I but it seem to **** my son father off and the next day I logged in my page I noticed I wasn't getting my notifications so I then thought I think yes logged in my page so to be childish I started to read my new msgs coming and deleting them writing back in deleting them because to me its like why are you even in my Facebook account when you get mad when I invade your privacy you just invaded mines so he calls me tells me its over he never wants to speak to me I was telling his business bad talking him only call him when his son is born he's done which was confusing to because I don't feel its that serious and how many times have you been logging in my page and why because when he'd have my phone for a day or days he can always check it cause I have nothing to hide sometimes I don't even log out I don't understand what just happened????? Head always breaking up for stupid reasons idk if its stress a reason to leave or if its our financial situation or he's getting scared that the baby almost coming or he really doesn't want me I don't understand cause when were together were fine or is he just mad because I accuse him of doing something when he's not and always at his throat about his Facebook and liking other women pictures idk someone help

[denyce89]

Thank you so much to take the time to give me advice

[DJCV14]

It has to be done.though.specially since.your almost due you cant have him acting.like that or fighting with you constantly after the babys born thats not healthy for.the baby you just have to do it and have a very serious talk with him think about your baby he needs a good stable happy home without fighting all the time or.with a dad that comes.and goes

[denyce89]

Its hard to talk to him when hes mad a conversation is needed but I'm scared to know where it would ho I don't wanna lose him even though idk if I should take him serious cause he acts like this like come on your 36 let's build a bridge and get over he acts like he caught me cheating

[DJCV14]

I would say sit.down and have a serious talk with him tell him exactly.how.you feel and then go from there that baby needs.a stable home he doesnt need.to be.around.fighting.24/7 its.not.healthy for.you or the baby

[denyce89]

Thanks for you advice yes I agree with you I'm just tired of it but yes I do love him but its not fair especially with his son on the way its not fair for my son either I'm a good women that doesn't cheat on him but he's so scorned from his past in which I remind him I'm not in your past and I'm not her but I don't know to take him seriously because sad to say this has been a routine that yes has to stop an he has to make up his mind he says I'm his everything and he loves us but does petty things like this and now Idk if I should let him know when I'm going to the hospital to deliver our son

[Danicaantle]

It sounds more like a control issue or jealousy. If it wasn't facebook it would probably be something else. But I wouldn't delete mine if he didn't delete his either. And if he its going to treat you like this right before your child is about to be born maybe he's not worth it. Maybe when the baby is born he will change his mind but I wouldn't let him think he can just walk in and out of you and the babys Iife whenever he wants. That won't be good for you or the baby. He needs to figure out if he's going for good or staying

[denyce89]

See he does music hes a "rapper" so supposedly he uses social networks a lot to promote his videos music and work but sometimes these women get out if hand or he seems flirty I have no problem getting rid of Facebook girl but he wont so I don't think its fair to go by his double standards you know

[NatFox]

I had same problem few years ago, but it was me who broke up with my partner due to his activity on social networks hehehe he didn't want to loose me and deleted everything. Unfortunately I would agree with your partner here... if it is bothering him that much why don't you both just delete it?