ok my neighbor is so mean I just had to post this

[melimeli]

My neighbor has 2 girls 5 and 4 with her firsst husband.. she then got married after she became pg with my neighbor.. she had twin girls that are now 1 and a half.  Before she met my male neighblor she was living in a crappy part of town, worked for 11 $ and hour and drove a 400$ car... he moved her into his house she quit working and stayed home with the kids bought two 30,000 dollar cars... ok here is the crappy part... when my dh came to visit last march before we got married we all went out to the club it is the first time I had went out with her... well we were on the dance floor and I saw her kissing a guy!!  I said Mica what are you doing??? I was a little tipsy so it was like a dream... but I felt so bad for her dh cuz he is a really good guy although a bit fat she knew him like that... anyway we never went out together again... the other day she told me she was getting a divorce that she was sick of her dh and had a boyfriend... well today her dh moved out of HIS house... it was so sad and I just pulled up to see him leave... he opened the door to HIS house and was sobbing don´t do this I´m sorry!! (him saying I´m sorry while he has been taking care of all 4 girls so she could spend the night at her boyfirends house!!!)  Well he was crying so loud... it broke my heart and she yelled GET OUT!!! and he left... walked to his car and cried WHYYYY??? OMG it made me feel like ****... it was so unfair of her... he left her everything the house the funiture the kids and the suburban... she still is not working... What a bi t ch... I feel so bad for him... she never worked so everything they have is his... and he left it all for her to use with her new boyfriend... her two kids by her first dh call him dad and everything... it is sooo sad... sorry so long but had to get it out of my system...

[Tennesseegirl]

I have always believed who ever cheats should be the one to leave everything! the other one is only the victum and shouldnt have to pay for some looser mistake. If she wants it somewhere else she should atleast have the cooth to do the proper thing,

I do believe there are 2 sides! I wonder what he did to make her so mad? I mean to kick someone out of the house. sounds like he did something and hes just sorry for it. I dont know
really sad situation. I hope it works out  for the best. but for her to kiss a guy drinking and dancing at a club? shes not wraped too tight and sounds like he deserves better anyway.

[melimeli]

I say it is all his because she has been cheating on him the whole time...  like at least she kissed that guy 8 months after they got married and I would bet it was not the first time... that is not a marriage that is a fraud we are not that good of friends my dd plays with hers and that is about it... I just hate to see a man cry it is hard

[grammy64]

While it is sad, 1) it is not all his b/c she did not work...it is THEIRS as they are married (so, no she should not get it all either) and 2) hopefully the ol' karma comes back on his side AND he is probably oh-so-much better not being there and not being with her.  Sometimes it is way more difficult to see it happening to someone we care about that it would be to be going thru it ourselves.  We feel so helpless.  Maybe your DH can contact him and see if he is okay or if there is any way he could help...sorry it is upsetting you.  Sometimes you have to have c r a p in your life so that when the good stuff comes along you realize it is just that - good stuff.  You do have to feel sad for him....I agree

[Tanker Chic]

poor guy.. it is sad

[melimeli]

yes... but to see a guy cry and beg and all... it was just sad... the thing is he is fat... so she was probably the only girl that wanted him (for his money)...  and he just fell hard

[Tanker Chic]

wow drama drama drama... sometimes i like to watch it go down, but I never like it in my own life..

Sounds like this guy needs to become a better judge of character..

[rukiyar]

Mel you couldnt have said it any better karma is a you know what , hopefully and unfortunatly he learned that you cant make a hoe into a house wife

[saj39]

All I have to say is what goes around comes around....Hopefully.....

[Tennesseegirl]

yea... He should of kicked her a@@ out!!