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I am in a long distance relationship I truly love my BF but because he didn't keep his promise and didn't come to visit so we could spend NYE together I made a huge mistake out of anger And being DRUNK I slept with my ex BF he took the condom off without me knowing until after I took a morning after pill about an hour after. since then I have had my period twice. My BF came to visit a few weeks ago and after he left I found out I was pregnant I missed my period and was getting sick.. My fear Is that the pill didn't work and its my ex baby according to my last period its not but my question is.. Is it possible for it to be my ex baby?
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When you go to the doctor for an ultrasound, please remember that if he or she says you are "7 weeks pregnant" or "9 weeks pregnant" this count will be based on the presumed first day of your last period. Pregnancy is counted this way by doctors, as beginning with the first day of bleeding of the last period the woman had before she got pregnant. So if they tell you a number of weeks that seems to fall two weeks before your boyfriend came to visit, that would indicate your boyfriend is the dad.
When you see the doctor and get the ultrasound, just say you would prefer to have the estimated due date and pregnancy duration figures be based on the size and developmental markers of the embryo and not on your reported date of when your last period was, since you had taken Plan B earlier and feel it might have given you an irregular cycle. That way you won't influence the estimated due date they give, it will be based on the embryo's information.
When you see the doctor and get the ultrasound, just say you would prefer to have the estimated due date and pregnancy duration figures be based on the size and developmental markers of the embryo and not on your reported date of when your last period was, since you had taken Plan B earlier and feel it might have given you an irregular cycle. That way you won't influence the estimated due date they give, it will be based on the embryo's information.
What you can know for sure is it is your baby and a life growing inside of you that already has a beating heart. It is so cool to see it on the ultrasoud. Trust that there is a reason this happened.
Wait until after your first ultrasound. They will let you know how far along you are and it will be easier for you to calculate when you conceived. Though it sounds to me that this is your boyfriend's baby. Good luck!
I got my period twice but I know people who have had there period for months before they found out they where pregnant ugghh it's so nerve wreaking just pray for me.. Thank you for responding
I can't take another pill according to my last period I'm already 7 weeks pregnant I go for an ultra sound on Tuesday so I guess I will know the truth then
I slept with my boyfriend in the middle of February after my last period I took the pill January 1st
I don't think so if u took the pill. The bleedn was probably fr U takn the pill...How long after U took the pill did U sleep with UR BF?..... If it was me I would take another pill to be sure it's not UR ex and wait until another period passes then sleep wit UR BF if UR truly TRYN for a baby by him. I wouldnt chance havn it and it's the ex baby that would be devastating..... Good luck
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